December 26 2007
Emma Caulfield's Final 2008 Voting Choice.
An interview with Ron Paul on NBC's "Meet The Press" determined her 2008 Presidential Election vote.
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Buffysmglover | December 26, 12:24 CET
theonetruebix | December 26, 12:51 CET
LOL. I have no clue. All I know is that it was on NBC's MEET THE PRESS.
Buffysmglover | December 26, 13:12 CET
JesterInACast | December 26, 16:20 CET
DaddyCatALSO | December 26, 17:25 CET
Pointy | December 26, 17:38 CET
I had not heard that slavery quote, bix. Amazing. And not in the gee, wow, cool way.
I seem to recall that Emma was the most conservative member of the Buffy cast, just as was Adam Baldwin of the Firefly cast.
Chris inVirginia | December 26, 17:39 CET
palehorse | December 26, 18:11 CET
azhippieinoz | December 26, 19:13 CET
Hmm, I'd be interested to hear his reasoning on why 'gradual emancipation' was necessary. I personally think freed slaves would have benefitted from some post-freedom education and aid. I think a lot of them just got cut loose with no means, so that had few options for survival.
Also, it took almost 100 years until we got the CRA, so I think that was gradual enough.
Rogue Slayer | December 26, 20:21 CET
Jim in Buffalo | December 26, 20:29 CET
Anyway, I can see why someone would want to vote for him, and that's really a stretch coming from me as I tend to disagree with every single politician ever. Especially Americans. Especially Republicans. But at least this guy doesn't seem to be invoking the Bible every ten seconds, which puts him way ahead, and he's not for the constitutional ban on gay marriage, which puts him further ahead.
But I'm still not gonna vote for him.
Partially because it's hard to believe this guy is for real, partly because he says he's Republican and partially because I don't know his entire platform...but mostly because I'm not American.
GreatMuppetyOdin | December 26, 20:48 CET
SoddingNancyTribe | December 26, 20:53 CET
Im surprised to hear so many people query her decision. Ron Paul has gained a few million supporters over the past few months... all of which I would deem to be very decent people who only want the best for their country.
Those of you who are basing any judgement upon this one interview should do some of your own research, I think.
Beren77 | December 26, 21:11 CET
And overall, I agree that political links should be considered carefully and posted cautiously, especially in the coming months. I prefer Whedonesque to be a place where I can take a break from the politics and whatnot I encounter in the rest of the web.
jclemens | December 26, 21:32 CET
Speaking of not discussing politics, yesterday a conversation about Barack Obama turned into a heated argument between my brother (democrat) and my uncle-in-law (republican). It ended amicably without any injuries, and nobody the winner. Surprising, given the 5-2 ratio of Reps vs. Dems in the house. It's also quite unusual for my family to debate politics. It opened my eyes to the kind of misinformation out there coming from both sides.
[ edited by electricspacegirl on 2007-12-27 01:53 ]
electricspacegirl | December 26, 21:39 CET
The Ron Paul "revolution" seems to stem mainly from his support of immediate withdrawal from Iraq and just about everywhere where the US has a military presence.....I don't disagree at all.
Mix that in with his honest in your face style and he seems like a really great candidate. I don't know, he's popularized the free market like its handing out gifts to people ("Merry Christmas, Here's healthcare!"; "Katrina victims, here's your rebuilt city for you and not corporate interests!"). Letting the free market (true free market principles) determine prices and our way of life is not going to help anyone. But the way he lays his ideas down is pretty much his appeal. Constantly quoting the constitution and all that. Which is great because it lays down a decent system of checks and balances. However the constitution was created by land owning white men, and the least of their concerns was ending slavery. Economics first, people second. And thats my problem with Ron Paul.
Don't ask me who I'd choose then for president, because frankly its all a game in this country. If you read up on your history you'll understand that the only changes ever to come (women's rite to vote and choose, civil rights, gay rights, 8-hour day, child labor laws, unionization, ending vietnam war), came from social movements and not form presidents or congressmen.
ChosenOne5376 | December 26, 22:33 CET
I'm a tax and spend liberal. I make no apologies.
These aren't King George's taxes that people complain about--Like it or not, it's the cost of living in a modern, capitalist world. It is the cost of keeping a civil society "together" and "civil". Education, health-care, even some (not all) of that "pork barrel" spending are necessary to modern life. They are the infrastructure of life.
People talk about taxes as if they don't benefit from it.
I benefit from my neighbor's kids being well educated-- so they don't grow to be a drag on my property values.
I benefit if the poorest of our society are NOT sick and are GETTING better educational opportunities than my "privilged" neighbors-- So they don't feel the need to come and rob our neighborhood...
There are plenty of "selfish" reasons to be liberal... Not just cause it's the right thing to do.
[snipped]
BTW...Anya didn't start out being all "money" hungry-- just kind of clueless.
Which always made me wonder if Joss, or one of his merry minions, didn't write that in, as an elaborate "in-joke". Emma Caulfied is a smart woman and probably would have gone along with it... irony and all.
Also.. Ron Paul... I'm rootin' for him to be a spoiler.
I don't know a single liberal who is willing to split the vote this time. No one I know is voting "Nader". Only people who would never vote liberal ... SOO..
Go Ron Paul Go!
[ edited by hbojo on 2007-12-26 22:24 ]
[ edited by SoddingNancyTribe on 2007-12-27 00:51 ]
hbojo | December 26, 22:52 CET
I'm going to shower now.
RhaegarTargaryen | December 26, 23:03 CET
Let's be honest, if he was suggesting gradual emancipation starting say around 1834 I'm sure anyone would agree that would have been a better decision. (i'm not familiar with his speech, just pointing that out.)
Seriously, there are a lot of ways for the US slavery issue to have been solved other than the War Between the States and Reconstruction which would have been, in the long run, less damaging to all parties concerned. Some of those "lot" would have involved extending slavery for a generation or so; incalculably hard on that generation and their children but in any number of cases better for their grandchildren and so on.
DaddyCatALSO | December 26, 23:17 CET
Tibbittz | December 27, 00:26 CET
ajay42 | December 27, 01:00 CET
Can you please clarify what you mean by that?
BrewBunny | December 27, 01:23 CET
Yes, that is her page. Check out the photos in her Myspace Photos. She has some that were taken by herself.
Welcome back SoddingNancyTribe!
Buffysmglover | December 27, 01:24 CET
But I can't not like someone who lists Gaius Baltar as a hero. And it looks like, from her tv and movie choices, she's a big nerd. She's got my vote.
Rogue Slayer | December 27, 02:19 CET
And I also feel compelled to ask that folks adhere to the site rules on spelling and punctuation, i.e., that they are good things. Yes, the most pedantic moderator is, indeed, back.
SoddingNancyTribe | December 27, 03:54 CET
palehorse | December 27, 03:55 CET
Yes, that is her page. Check out the photos in her Myspace Photos. She has some that were taken by herself.
I read her other blog entries, and she certainly has some strong opinions now, doesn't she? Must be informed by all those hours spent reading "Jane Austin."
BrewBunny | December 27, 04:05 CET
I feel less manly somehow.
hbojo | December 27, 05:32 CET
Is it just knowing Emma is sort of rightish-of-center makes Anya 's hard-core cpaitalism harder to take?
Or are you judging Emma (and I have to admit you didn't *say* your judgment was negative, but it "almost sounded" that way) just because this is the first you're finding out what party she's registered in?
ETA: hbojo, what do you mean by a "spoiler"? Hoping he loses the Republican nom. and goes Independent?
[ edited by DaddyCatALSO on 2007-12-27 02:48 ]
DaddyCatALSO | December 27, 05:47 CET
I love this idea. While Anya encouraged Xander to make money to buy her things in season four, I think the real start of the uber-capitalism came from Fury, didn't it, in the Game of Life in "Real Me"? And then her role in the store in Petrie's "No Place Like Home"? Of course, Goddard made her a recovering communist too, in "Selfless".
The cast and crew have always been very comfortable with jokingly mocking differing political views (i.e. right-winger Tim Minear calling Joss "Kerry-boy").
As for the debate on the gradual emancipation, a Buffyverse example that comes to mind is "Chosen": Buffy may have been right in giving the girls freedom, but the decision *has* to be backed up by her working to ease the transition of the girls into their new empowered state, which she is doing in Season Eight. So too are sudden introductions of freedom without any help easing the transition inappropriate.
(By the way, I recently saw, and recommend, Deepa Mehta's film "Earth," about the chaos in India after the British's departure and partitioning; no one disputes that the British should have given India its independence back, but they departed without doing anything to deal with the chaos they left in their wake.)
WilliamTheB | December 27, 06:28 CET
Look closer. There is a lot of toxicity, like the lead paint from China. Texas should be embargoed.
I accept being edited or deleted for this.
dreamlogic | December 27, 07:30 CET
Suzie | December 27, 07:43 CET
angel fan | December 27, 08:01 CET
No, just the politics. Molly Ivins is dead, and I'm not feeling so good myself. She tried to be as cheerful for as long as she could, even trying to put the best face possible on Dubya, but had to give it up. I'm really just talking about the politics. The music and the food should be everywhere. I'm always praying for Taco Cabana to come here.
dreamlogic | December 27, 08:25 CET
Dana5140 | December 27, 09:47 CET
I don't read every post on the forum, as some do not interest me. This one did, I read it, and I enjoyed the commentary. Some may not. To those some--don't read it if it will offend you or reduce the pleasure you find in perusing this site. However, do not limit the rights of others who may find the occasional political post interesting and thought provoking.
pinkie7 | December 27, 10:06 CET
Sorry 'bout that, hbojo: knock back a beer, scratch yourself, and you'll be right as rain again.
SoddingNancyTribe | December 27, 10:39 CET
pinkie7 | December 27, 11:10 CET
Shey | December 27, 12:37 CET
Rowan Hawthorn | December 27, 16:06 CET
People have the impression that because Ron Paul is against the Federal Amendment to ban gay marriage that he is for marriage equality. He's not. He's just against changing the Federal Constitution so that local government can ban gay marriage. In fact, if a local government wanted to ban homosexuality altogether, he supports their power to do that. He even introduced a bill that would give states the power to do just that (and overturn Lawerence v. Texas.)
GrrrlRomeo | December 27, 17:42 CET
dreamlogic | December 27, 18:01 CET
There goes the neighbourhood ;).
I've quite a lot of sympathy for libertarianism as an idea but then Communism doesn't seem too bad on paper either and look how that turned out.
If we're jumping into boxes then i'm socially liberal and fiscally fairly conservative - by European standards that is i.e. i'm still happy enough for a portion of my income to go towards universal, free (at the point of service) health-care and a limited welfare system, I just don't want basic income tax rates set at 55% in order to cover it. Pure libertarianism just seems to miss the failings of lassez faire capitalism to me though (i.e. monopolies, high barriers to entry, large and increasing income gaps etc.) but even a cursory inspection tells you that this guy isn't a pure libertarian, he's just a fairly right-wing Republican with some libertarian leanings (small, non-interventionist government has always been a Republican thing, right ? This guy just wants a smaller government than most).
That said, don't know much about him, at the moment it's not that relevant to me (though if he looks like he may become US President then it certainly will be) but he at least seems to have the courage of his convictions, even if I don't agree with many/most of them (speaking out against farming subsidies - one of the more hypocritical Republican policies it seems to me - when you're a Texas congressman isn't cowardly, whatever else it may be).
(and i've always known Emma Caulfield was a Republican, just like AB and TM, though her blog - assuming that's actually hers - paints her as a bit, err, strident with it. Doesn't put me off Anya though. AB, in fact, is also a Bush fan from what I gather which must make him, like, a Republican squared or something - not to mention an increasing rarity ;)
Saje | December 27, 18:12 CET
The real Anyanka would make them eat all that gold until they burst.
dreamlogic | December 27, 19:12 CET
Heh, yeah I might come across as believing that NOT all politicians say one thing when running then do another when they get in. I feel like i've blown any "die-hard cynic" cred I may have had ;-).
Saje | December 27, 19:20 CET
dreamlogic | December 27, 19:27 CET
DaddyCatALSO | December 27, 19:34 CET
Yeah, faith in the system is hard to maintain dreamlogic. Like whoever it was that said it said, "Democracy is the worst possible form of government, except for all the others" ;).
Saje | December 27, 19:43 CET
dreamlogic | December 27, 19:53 CET
I apologize on behalf of Texas for
... NCLB
... Dubya
... Alberto Gonzalez
... Karl Rove
BUT I accept kudos (on behlaf of Texas AND San Antonio) for
... Amy Acker
... Summer Glau
... Araceli Valdez (Inca Mummy Girl)
and
... Joss Whedon
hmm....
well....
I've adopted Joss on behalf of Texas
hbojo | December 27, 20:02 CET
I'm not really sure why a lot of people on this forum seem to equate Emma Caulfield with Anya. She's not Anya, she's an actress who played her. Making the distinction is important because there's no reason why anyone's personal views should "ruin" your enjoyment of the character. I mean, just because Jayne Cobb is a thief and a robber doesn't mean you should expect the same from Adam Baldwin. I doubt anyone's enjoyment of The Sopranos is ruined because James Gandolfini is NOT a mobster in real life. One's personal picks in politics or religion should not affect your understanding that the actor and the character are entirely separate.
I'm not sure I support Ron Paul, but I am conservative. And I'd like to point out that no one has yet to actually provide a link to the Ron Paul interview in which he supposedly promotes graduated emancipation. I personally can't find it, but I haven't looked too hard since I'm posting this and trying to get out the door to run errands.
CaffeinatedSquint | December 27, 20:49 CET
bubbletoes | December 27, 21:08 CET
hst3k | December 27, 21:32 CET
Which other candidates (either major party), who had a vote, voted against the Iraq war AND against the "Patriot" Act from the beginning?
Dr. Paul did.
Don't judge any candidate by sound-bytes or one dimension of a three dimensional stance. Some things that he says aren't understood without hearing the rest of his answer. Like decriminalizing marijuana, understanding the damage of the "Inflation Tax", or how our interventionist foreign policies have provoked terrorist attacks on our country.
As with any candidate, we should hear their entire response, and not just something pulled out that somebody chose for us to hear. Not that we should ignore those, just investigate and get the whole story, please.
I'm obviously a Ron Paul supporter. He's the first presidential candidate in my lifetime (and I'm pretty old)that I feel I can enthusiastically support with my money and my vote. I agree with Emma (though not from that particular Tim Russert interview, check him out on the Colbert Report -YouTube it).
I think this candidate is worth the time to research.
Anna von Ovonov | December 27, 22:16 CET
-Just agreein'
Anna von Ovonov | December 27, 22:21 CET
I think that certain captain would be pro-choice and Ron Paul ain't.
And that's a deal breaker for any self-respecting feminist
[ edited by hbojo on 2007-12-27 19:41 ]
hbojo | December 27, 22:30 CET
If you're talking about Tim Minear, I believe he's a Libertarian, not a Republican.
Dr. Paul did.
So did Barack Obama, and he's the one I'm voting for.
I think that certain captain would be pro-choice and Ron Paul ain't.
And that's a deal breaker for any self-respecting feminist
That's my policy. Lay off my rights, and I mean all of them. I just can't trust anyone who wants to take away a right. That's a dangerous slope, and I don't want to end up living in a fascist country.
electricspacegirl | December 27, 22:59 CET
Dana5140 | December 27, 23:05 CET
Dr. Paul did.
So did Barack Obama, and he's the one I'm voting for.
Obama didn't have a vote at the time of the Iraq or original Patriot Act voting periods, to my knowledge.
[ edited by Rogue Slayer on 2007-12-27 20:25 ]
Rogue Slayer | December 27, 23:16 CET
On that Meet the Press interview, (approx. min. 6.30 of the youtube feature above) Dr. Paul does explain his stance on how the country should have simply phased out slavery rather than go to war. He lays it at Lincoln's feet as an attempt to expand federal power.
If my memory serves, the country *was* trying to phase out slavery for decades and the southern states got upset enough about it to secede from the country before Lincoln took office. Terms like "Bloody Kansas" came out of that attempt to phase out slavery. The Confederate States of America was formed before Lincoln even became president. The war happened to keep to try to put the country back together.
If Dr. Paul wants to argue whether there was another way for Lincoln to get the south to return to the USA, fine, but it is a bit ingenuous to suggest that by the time Lincoln came into office all he would have had to do was offer to buy the slaves freedom or that the war was the country's first attempt to end slavery. For that matter it is a bit ingenuous to act like the war was all Lincoln's doing. When he arrived in office the southern states had already formed a separate government and were denying access to federal forts in their territory. They also started shooting at ships and attacked Fort Sumter within the first three months of Lincoln's presidency.
That was not a one sided war in any sense. There is plenty of responsibility to go around. One thing for sure, the south did not secede because they were looking for a federal buy-out scheme.
I get suspicious of candidates who rewrite and dumb-down history for their own purposes.
newcj | December 27, 23:18 CET
To borrow an insight applied to someone much better known than Malcolm Reynolds, what a person sees in Mal often says far more about them than it does about Mal.
I'd caution against continuing this thread further into the political realm. Mentioning abortion is one step away from Godwin's law. Politeness and our social contract restrain me from further comment.
jclemens | December 27, 23:24 CET
hst3k | December 27, 23:41 CET
What made the question of slavery in the U.S. different than other countries and capable of leading to a civil war was the inherent economic dichotomy: a southern agrarian economy that was dependent on slave labor and a northern industrial economy that wasn't. Slavery wasn't just a way of life in the south-- it was the entire economy. Most of the southern states saw any threat to slavery, such as Lincoln's election, as a threat to their very survival. Hence a war to settle the issue.
Sunfire | December 28, 00:29 CET
And given that Emma is a Republican, and this is primary s eason, I'd see it as bad taste to endorse candidates in other parties yet *grin.
DaddyCatALSO | December 28, 00:29 CET
SugarFalls | December 28, 00:32 CET
That said, I think on matters as political party affiliation where neither party is a dictatorship, and we're operating under free choice, I don't think it's really fair to say you are angry, disappointed, or ANYTHING with an actor when he or she has beliefs, just like all of us do. I am personally a Republican, but would never stop watching an actor's work that I enjoy, if that person were Democratic or Libertarian. Their political affiliation does not affect my enjoyment of their roles because I feel that none of the major three parties are BAD or corrupt. I wouldn't support Communism, because that IS bad and corrupt in many ways.
I will, however, enjoy an actor's work less, if they make decisions that I think are morally apprehensible in their own lives. I'm not going to watch another Ben Affleck movie, not because Ben Affleck is a Democrat, but because I don't tend to enjoy his choice in roles. But if he were to advocate something so obviously morally apprehensible as to that the majority of the people, regardless of politics, would regard as offensive (say, if he were to suggest that women were second-class and shouldn't vote) then not only would I have problems watching his movies, but I feel that Sydney Bristow would exact revenge and then I might be able to watch Good Will Hunting again.
CaffeinatedSquint | December 28, 01:17 CET
Well IIRC he was referred to as Republican and a Bush supporter in 2004 electricspacegirl (it's mentioned a few times on this thread about the Kerry fundraiser) by people like Alyson (who seems to have real world contact with him) though obviously that may well be because he didn't have the opportunity to vote libertarian (and he may no longer support Bush - right thinking people change their minds about stuff like that all the time, whichever "side" of the arbitrary left/right divide they happen to sit on).
Of course I will avoid a performer because of "addytood" so perhaps I'm not consistent here.
Old ground to some extent (Orson Scott Card casts a long shadow ;) but though I don't really care about an actor's politics, if I found out for instance that an actor felt that AIDS was God's vengeance on gays for being evil, that'd give me pause. Some knowledge just permanently colours your view of a person and if you can completely forget that when watching them act then I think you've an uncommon knack for compartmentalisation (that's the big 'you' BTW, not any actual 'you's on this thread ;).
Saje | December 28, 01:43 CET
Saje;If an example is useful, I strongly objected to the Actual choice of words the lead singe fromt he Dixie Chicks used toe xpress her feeling sbaout Iraq while in copncert but I had no problem with ehr talking baout it. But when the fiddler from the group said she was glad they had recorded an album that had maved away form country format because she didn't want their songs on the same stations with a couple harmless fun songs she proceeded to bash, then I said good riddance.
DaddyCatALSO | December 28, 02:06 CET
Dana5140 | December 28, 02:07 CET
Don Imus is the perfect example. I don't care how much money he's donated to various African-American groups or even if he goes and adopts eight children from Africa, what he said about the women's basketball team was deeply offensive and unforgiveable to me. I've never listened to Don Imus, but even if he was a musician or an actor instead of a radio host, I'd extend the same courtesy I'd extend to anyone else who makes comments such as those - I wouldn't support them. But it has nothing to do with whether Don Imus is Democrat or Republican.
CaffeinatedSquint | December 28, 02:40 CET
Is it just knowing Emma is sort of rightish-of-center makes Anya 's hard-core capitalism harder to take?
Or are you judging Emma (and I have to admit you didn't *say* your judgment was negative, but it "almost sounded" that way) just because this is the first you're finding out what party she's registered in?
- DaddyCatALSO
Well, I'm always surprised to find out someone in the arts, and especially someone who's been involved in such an arguably progressive project as Buffy would support ideas/political parties that are inherently regressive. But it wasn't her political affiliation that I found so off-putting; rather it was this blog post:
It’s only natural
Maybe you haven't heard about the the breast feeding sit-ins that some crazy "activists" are pushing for, but I have. Sigh. Recently a mother was asked to cover up while breast feeding her baby while "dining" at an Applebees restaurant in Arizona. In an attempt to squash the discomfort of the other patrons, the manager asked if she could cover her breast while in the dining room. She explained she didn't have a blanket and then made it clear she was offended by his request and soon made her story national news. It is her "right" to breast feed in public, whenever and wherever she pleases.
Soon to follow were accusations of discrimination and the demands for apologies. An argument this woman and other Lactivists have made is that breast feeding is natural and therefor should be excepted and therefor catered to by all. They haven't actually said they should be catered to but really, that's what they want.
But you know breast feeding IS natural. And you know what else is natural? Sex. Should couples be allowed to shag in between meals if their desire overcomes them? What about relieving one's bladder or bowels? That's certainly natural, so should we forego using bathrooms as well? Hell while we're at it, being naked is the most natural thing in the world so should nudists be allowed to dine in the buff while sampling the all you can salad bar? The answer to these questions is no.
- Emma Caulfield
I think it's patently absurd that we have, as a culture, distanced ourselves so far from public breastfeeding that it's thought of by anyone as vulgar. It'll be hard now for me to watch Caulfield as Anya and not be reminded of how strongly I disagree with her views.
Not that this will actually ruin Anya for me, I was being dramatic...
Tibbittz | December 28, 03:33 CET
Sorry, Sunfire, but I think you misspelt "new nation." As much as we like to ignore it, the War for Southern Independence had a lot of economic and military similarities with the American Revolutionary War: Smaller, more agrarian section seceeds from larger, more populous industrial nation, which proceeds to launch a war of aggression to reconqueor the rebellious provinces.
Of course, we know what the moral issues and military outcomes were in each war, but the similarities are all-so-often overlooked. Fort Sumter was sovereign soil of the Confederate States of America, which it had de facto nationalized as part of secession. For the USA to attempt to resuppy it, rather than withdrawing its troops, was the initial act of war.
Morally ambiguous stories are part of what makes Firefly and Angel (and, to a lesser extent, Buffy) so interesting. Funny thing is, if you look beyond the dumbed-down versions we got in grade school, there's plenty of moral ambiguity right smack in the middle of history.
jclemens | December 28, 03:41 CET
I won't even touch the post denouncing atheists who have the audacity to advocate for a separation of church and state ...
BrewBunny | December 28, 04:02 CET
The dispute with Applebee’s began June 14. Ryan chose a booth in the back of the restaurant away from other customers. When her baby, Michael, got hungry, she began to nurse him discreetly, she said.
But a waitress came over and said that if she wanted to breast-feed, she had to cover the baby with a blanket. Ryan said it was so hot that she didn’t have a blanket. The waitress then repeated her request. Ryan said she then asked to see the manager and handed him a copy of the 2006 law that prohibits any interference with a woman breast-feeding her baby in public.
The manager said he knew about the law but a customer had complained about indecent exposure, so she had to cover the baby with a blanket.
Just as her food arrived, Ryan left to nurse her baby in her car.
Her lawyer wrote a letter to Thomas and King, the company that operates Central Kentucky’s Applebee’s. They got no response. After a second letter, a Thomas and King lawyer said the restaurant chain would consider keeping blankets in the restaurant so that breast-feeding women could cover themselves.
“That’s like telling Rosa Parks she still had to sit in the back of the bus, but we’ll give her a blanket to make her more comfortable,” Ryan said.
Yep, that's a really "crazy" woman there who obviously is just looking for the public to cater to her.
BrewBunny | December 28, 04:09 CET
I'm always amazed that it's apparently just the 'nippular' area that is offensive, given what passes for bathing suits and bikinis these days.
That said, is it unreasonable to ask someone to cover up their breast, regardless of why it is out? I've seen tons of women breastfeeding in public, and every one of them covered themselves with a blanket.
I mean, if we're going to say you can expose your breast to breastfeed, then why can I not expose my breast for the fun of it? Then you get into a bit of hairy territory with equal rights and whatnot.
Mind you, I think people should be able to go around nude if they want, and that we are a far too puritanical society, but just going along with society...it should be even-steven, if you ask me.
Ryan said she then asked to see the manager and handed him a copy of the 2006 law that prohibits any interference with a woman breast-feeding her baby in public.
Wow, that kind of sounds like a woman who was aiming to either start a lawsuit or prove a point. Who walks around with laws in their purse??
After a second letter, a Thomas and King lawyer said the restaurant chain would consider keeping blankets in the restaurant so that breast-feeding women could cover themselves.
Good for them. I don't agree with making people breastfeed in the restroom, because after all, that doesn't seem very hygenic. But asking them to cover with, and even providing, a blanket. Seems fair enough. Clearly some people find expose breasts offensive, and if you're a business trying to keep everyone happy, it seems a fair compromise. You're allowing the mother to feed her child naturally, and you're allowing the other patrons to not feel...whatever they feel by seeing a boob. Offended. Disgusted. Whatever negative emotions boobs evoke.
[ edited by Rogue Slayer on 2007-12-28 01:20 ]
Rogue Slayer | December 28, 04:20 CET
That post, as well as the breast feeding post, also made me realize just how much I disagree with Emma's politics and beliefs. But they also made me think that she may just be an even better actress than I gave her credit for... she sold Anya completely, even if the character was used in service of messages she may not believe in herself. I always knew Emma had excellent comedic timing, but now, I am pretty convinced she is a great actress. And if she came over to my house for dinner, we'd have a nice boring discussion about the weather :)
igj | December 28, 04:25 CET
But you know, it gives me new respect for the cast and crew of Buffy, that they co-existed (I think peacefully?) with Emma. Some of the DVD commentary would suggest they really liked her. I think that says a lot, that they saw the woman, not her wacky politics.
hst3k | December 28, 04:28 CET
A woman who is smart enough to know what her rights are and who is experienced enough to know that a large portion of the public is not similarly informed.
Signed,
Another woman who once carried a copy of her state's right to breastfeed law with her. ;-)
BrewBunny | December 28, 04:28 CET
Well, men can already expose their breasts for the fun of it (though we might not get served in bars or supermarkets) so the equal rights thing doesn't worry me ;).
The thing is Rogue Slayer, some people find exposed hair offensive, they still don't have the right (in Western countries) to ask people that don't share their beliefs to cover their heads. And surely it could be she'd had trouble before and so got a copy of the law to cover herself (ba dum dum ;) ?
Just read the "Let's make a big church/state pie cos the founding fathers she praises so highly really didn't want the two kept separate (all evidence to the contrary)" post. She likes her totally unsubstantiated, ill-considered rants doesn't she ? Love it, everyone should have a hobby ;).
Saje | December 28, 04:38 CET
And in Ontario, 10 years ago, it was decided that women could go topless where they pleased. More or less.
Lioness | December 28, 04:42 CET
Is that it continues.. that more and more people voice opinions about Caulfield's politics.
On other boards that I read (where testosterone is king...her opinions would not even raise an eyebrow).
Regardless, of the political stripes in here-- it seems that Whedonites just seem to be more politically interesting (eventhough you conservatives are wrong....we still love you).
Emma's opinions breastfeeding opinions aren't exactly mainstream... but I have to admit that they need to be confronted when appropriate.
I don't believe that it's right to just let other's "be" with what are patently wrong ideas. It's good to confront bad ideas.
Otherwise, bad ideas gain currency.
I'm still apalled by the fact that every American is not outraged at our involvement in a war based on false premises.
Regardless of where you fall on the political spectrum... the fact that we are in Iraq and there were NO WMDs should make us ashamed. It's not a matter of left and right... but of right and wrong.
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hbojo | December 28, 04:43 CET
Dana5140; Sorry, I was taking your comment a bit more broadly than you meant it. I'm the last person to ever comment on another's decision to avoid spending money :-).
hbojo; The main probklem with Iraq is we're there now and just withdrawing isn't good way to deal with that emssy rel;aity.
Tibbitz;Just for the sake of argument, I could say the Buffyverse has a strong conservative element it it also, mainly because it has a fairly specific moral code running thru it and most prime-time shows, well, don't.
jclemens;Britain wasn't all that industrialized at the time; the economic asepcts were very different in the two wars.
hst3k; Emma and Tonyw ere the only actors from the casts invited to Aly and Alexis's wedding. Thsoe 4 plus AMy Acker, Nicky, and Charisma, plus their various spousen* are all fairly close socially last I heard.
*not a typo, that's how I spell and say it :-)
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DaddyCatALSO | December 28, 04:45 CET
Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a mother may
breastfeed her child in any location, public or private, except the
private home or residence of another, where the mother and the child
are otherwise authorized to be present.
Now, of course, I've never argued anyone's right to breastfeed in public, but whether if 'covering up' is called for. The law doesn't really address it. And I wonder what the consensus would be if the mother were in a school. But like I said, it's never been an issue in my experience, as all breastfeeding women I've seen cover up in public, and from those I've talked to, they don't particularly like having their breast exposed to the public anyway.
A woman who is smart enough to know what her rights are and who is experienced enough to know that a large portion of the public is not similarly informed.
Signed,
Another woman who once carried a copy of her state's right to breastfeed law with her. ;-)
So this woman probably had prior experiences of breastfeeding in public, without cover, and people asking her to cover? Not speaking to the legality of it, but I'd just bring a blanket in the future if that happened. But then again, I'm not big on fighting for rights that don't really have much consequence, just because it's a right. I mean, breastfeeding in public is a right. Yes, fight for that. But being asked to cover up is not taking that right away from you. I mean, I'm sure she had a spit-up rag with her, if she is an experience mother. I wonder if her main problem was them asking her to cover up, or her impression that she had to leave. If they had provided her with a blanket, would she have refused it on principle? Didn't sound that way, sounded like she simply didn't have one. And did the restaurant insist she leave? I guess I just don't have enough facts to really get a full picture of the situation.
The thing is Rogue Slayer, some people find exposed hair offensive, they still don't have the right (in Western countries) to ask people that don't share their beliefs to cover their heads.
Yes, but in countries where it is against the accepted 'law' to expose your hair, they certainly can ask you to cover your head. And it seems in the US, it is not accepted to expose your breasts, so you are asked to cover them.
I would guess this woman carried a copy of the law in her purse because this was not the first time she had been told she couldn't breast feed her child in public and she was willing to take a stance.
I guess my point is, from the info we have, she wasn't told she can't breast feed in public. She was asked to cover up, as it was apparently offending other patrons.
Rogue Slayer | December 28, 04:49 CET
You know, for some reason, a lot of people in this world have made it a point to add in the words "in spite of" as if politics should be a yardstick for us to compare each other to. I don't care what your politics are, if you're a bad person who hates others, I'm not going to respect you.I don't feel as if anyone from the cast "put up with" or simply "co-existed" with Emma. It's not as if she had leprosy, for heaven's sake. That's one of the problems with this world, that instead of seeing people for being people, common decent human beings, we see red hat or blue hat, and we think that people with beliefs that are different than ours can't possibly get along with "normal" folks because obviously, Emma's politics are CRAZY.
I personally wouldn't like to breastfeed in public, thankyouverymuch. Forgive me for being extremely puritanical, but I think it'd just be a little distracting to the other restaurant-goers, if it was obvious. This woman wasn't being obvious, which is fine, that I have no problem with, but I don't think Emma should be judged or written off for expressing her opinion, which I'm sure is the same as many others.
And how dare any of us single Emma out for her comments. It's not as if any of us ever read one article on the internet and make opinions without digging through four or five other ones to confirm the details, right? I'm sure all of us do it a lot, even if we try not to. Her comments regarding the breastfeeding woman were not "she's a wretched human being" but simply that just because it is natural, perhaps it should not be done everywhere. That's a sensible line of logic, IMO.
CaffeinatedSquint | December 28, 04:53 CET
and
And it seems in the US, it is not accepted to expose your breasts, so you are asked to cover them.
seem slightly contradictory Rogue Slayer. If we don't know then we don't know, we can't say whether it's protected OR illegal.
I kind of agree though that it makes sense to pick your battles and (the odd occasion apart, usually in the morning or pre-coffee ;) i'm not really the sort to fight over the small things either. But then I guess everyone has different priorities on "issues".
And how dare any of us single Emma out for her comments.
We dare like ... this ;). Seriously, she posted comments in public, that means the public get to scrutinise them (just as all our comments on here are open to scrutiny and, within the rules of the site and the mods' judgement, being challenged/ridiculed). And anyway, I very much doubt she's so thin skinned to be bothered by it. Her logic's not "insane and happenstance" but at the same time it just boils down to what some find offensive and what others don't so in this instance, logic doesn't really help us (unless it's actually been ruled illegal, which seems murky).
Saje | December 28, 05:02 CET
CaffeinatedSquint | December 28, 05:10 CET
In general, the (few) posts i've read have been ad hominem (in a general sense), ranty and sometimes nonsensical. That's fine, she's absolutely entitled to express herself any way she likes and on one level it's quite entertaining. Doesn't mean we have to just accept it without comment if it rubs us up the wrong way though (anymore than Ms Caulfield has to).
Saje | December 28, 05:26 CET
I don't think republicans are bad people, and I think extremist democrats are just as reprehensible as extremist republicans. (Seriously, Tim Robbins is uber-talented, but I want to punch him in the face every time he starts talking about politics despite the fact that I agree with most of his beliefs). And if I want to, I can say that this disappoints me a little...and it does. I mean, she's as fully entitled to her beliefs as I am mine, but I always associate Buffy with liberalism.
Plus, her blog posts just seem rather insane, at least by my definition of insanity. And she's got a Rudy Giuliani thing on her MySpace (yet also tons of Bono admiration, which boggles my mind). Ugh.
This doesn't change Buffy or the Anya character for me, though. She's a very talented actress, and I will continue to enjoy her work. I mean, when I found out that Trey Parker and Matt Stone were registered republicans I nearly had a heart attack, but South Park continues to be one of the best shows on television (or at least it will if this damned strike ever comes to an end). Though I must say, their views seem way closer to mine than Emma's, and also sensible.
UnpluggedCrazy | December 28, 05:34 CET
CaffeinatedSquint | December 28, 06:05 CET
I find it funny that the same republicans who decry any "Hollywood liberal" voicing a political opinion will defend to the nth degree Chuck Norris speaking out for Mike Huckabee. I am tired of the situationalism. In fact, I hate it on both sides- the republicans are fighting for the same rights that they once stripped from the democrats, now that they are in the minority. Jeez.
As to Emma, not a one of us would give a fig for her views were she not on Buffy. I love her character, but she's a actor "without portfolio" right now and her comments will have virtually no effect on anything. Save for a day long political discussion here.
Dana5140 | December 28, 06:13 CET
I'm surprised too, but mostly because Hollywood tends to lean left, way, way left. So hearing that someone takes a different point of view is refreshing to me. Sure some of her posts I don't agree with, but others make sense.
As for me, well I'm a libertarian at heart, even though I do recognize the limitations of the truly theoretical limited government that it aspires for. So back to the point of the original article posted about, her endorsement of Ron Paul, I'm glad to hear it since I voted for him for President when he ran the last time. While I find that my preference for limited govt. finds a better home on the republican side of the fence, in general elections I tend to vote third party to make the point that I'm not happy with the limited lesser-of-two-weavels choices our two party system gives us. That and the tendency of the republican nominating system to serve up candidates that are more into interventionist/authoritarian policies, like our current President.
Kyrax | December 28, 06:20 CET
Even if the law confirms their right to breast feed their children, why is asking for some discretion such a problem. Sure it should be done politely, but just asking for consideration of others should not be a crime. We live in a too litigious society already, so bringing lawyers into the mix because you don't like how someone handled the situation is a bit much.
Kyrax | December 28, 06:31 CET
But nobody says a bad word about my beloved Dixie Chicks: DaddyCatALSO, you're fired. ;-)
SoddingNancyTribe | December 28, 07:14 CET
and
And it seems in the US, it is not accepted to expose your breasts, so you are asked to cover them.
seem slightly contradictory Rogue Slayer. If we don't know then we don't know, we can't say whether it's protected OR illegal.
I just meant that the breastfeeding law doesn't mention anything about the need for covering up or anything like that; however walking around with your breasts exposed is considered 'indecent exposure', so I do know that is illegal(or maybe depends on your state). So does the breastfeeding law exempt a woman from the 'indecent exposure' law? It's quite possible it does.
Rogue Slayer | December 28, 08:10 CET
As a student of politics I appreciate that this year we have an embarassment of riches. There are almost twenty candidates between the two major parties, and even I'll admit that there are decent ones on each side who could be good Presidents if elected. Sure there are some clunkers and the typical ego trips who shouldn't have bothered filing for the nomination. So look around and research their positions, and you'll probably find someone you can tolerate. If you get involved now, you may even have an impact on getting your favorite nominated.
Kyrax | December 28, 08:35 CET
About seeing conservatism in "Buffy" because it's moral -- er, DaddyCatALSO, are you saying liberals aren't moral? :) I would disagree there.
About Emma Caulfield's political views being at odds with those of her castmates -- Joss Whedon hired her for five seasons of "Buffy" and gave Adam Baldwin a job on the end of "Angel" when "Firefly" went away (and brought him back for "Serenity"). If Joss is happy to work with people who have different political views than his own, then why should the actors who *do* agree with him politically be uncomfortable working with these folks? :)
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Shapenew | December 28, 08:53 CET
Burp cloths = boobie burqas.
[ edited by BrewBunny on 2007-12-28 06:03 ]
BrewBunny | December 28, 09:03 CET
Doesn't the ninth amendment make it clear that no freedoms shall be denied that aren't specifically prohibited?
If so, then breast feeding in the open should be protected (but of course, that doesn't mean that you won't be unjustly arrested and detained for it without so much as an apology from the police),even if people are offended by it.
Anna von Ovonov | December 28, 09:47 CET
Dana5140 | December 28, 17:35 CET
The whole Janet Jackson tempest in a teacup clued me in like nothing else had just how sensitive some segments of the US are to nudity. Kinda funny ;).
(that said, we're "sensitive" about head-butts being shown on TV believe it or not - the UK seems to worry more about violence, the US seems to get more wound up about sex and swearing - so it's all just down to cultural mores)
Saje | December 28, 18:06 CET
Dana5140 | December 28, 19:50 CET
Shapenew | December 28, 19:55 CET
newcj | December 28, 20:06 CET
Rogue Slayer | December 28, 20:31 CET
But I think there is a greater point here, well beyond the issue. And it is this: this country is now so divided and so divisive that I think, in general, you can pick the politics of a person once they provide an opinion on just about anything. I will venture to guess that most- I said most, not all- of those who are against breast feeding in public fall on the conservative side of politics, and those for on the liberal side. And pick your issue, I think this is true- abortion, social security reform, universal health care, stem cell research, intelligent design (a canard if ever there was one), religion in the public square- pick it, and by your answer you reveal your politics- in general. And our politicians exploit these differences. I will be caucusing for Obama next week largely because he is the only candidate anywhere who continually and relentlessly talks about uniting, not dividing, hope not fear.
Dana5140 | December 28, 20:57 CET
Or they wanna see some breasts. In which case, they should buy Angel: After the Fall... wah wah wah! Sorry, couldn't resist the urge to tie two semi-offtopic threads together.
zeitgeist | December 28, 21:12 CET
Saje, actually, defecating in public in unhygienic and can be smelled by anyone in the immediate vicinity.
Not necessarily. You could have a loo in the middle of the room so that it's basically the same as it is now only right out in front of people, nothing unhygienic about it (so long as you wash your hands - which we all do, right ? ;). And smelling bad isn't illegal either AFAIK - again, it's just arbitrary preference.
My point (and hers) though is there are plenty of things that are natural (and not illegal) that people don't do in public out of consideration for others i.e. being "natural" is no defence, it's still down to arbitrary lines.
(she used crapping to sway people by evoking disgust - standard rhetorical trick and another irksome thing about her posts IMO - but the point is not that crapping and breast-feeding are directly comparable, the point is they're both natural human bodily functions so that simply saying "Breast-feeding is the most natural thing in the world" isn't a justification for doing it in public - saying it's not hurting anyone so why shouldn't the mother be free to do it is IMO but I suppose it's down to whether we put the onus of dealing with the problem on those causing offence or those being offended i.e. either the mother could cover up or the offended people could look away)
So, taking your argument to its logical extreme, if something offends someone somewhere, we need to accede to that?
That's not my argument Dana5140, my argument is merely that pleading "naturalness" doesn't justify a behaviour. You hit the nail though in that it boils down to what people want to see, not what's natural (or even legal as in your women kissing example - i'm assuming that's not against the law in the US ?) i.e. it's about taboos. Your example about racism is germane I think because of course, 50 years ago, in certain parts of America they would have had to leave - what people find acceptable changed (as did the law) and that's no longer the case.
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Saje | December 28, 21:14 CET
Ah, but its only because you stole the gravitic anomalizer from my TARDIS. On the alleged topic - I think we should try and be aware that not everyone wants us to push everything we are doing in their faces. At some point we have to realize that people are slow to change and while it sucks, its not polite to ram things down people's throats if they are not ready for it. You have to get to tolerance before you have a chance at acceptance, and when you demand acceptance now versus asking for tolerance, you get a backlash reaction. So, hey, wacky idea, try being discrete about your breastfeeding or public displays of affection, unless you are doing it specifically to irk people and geta r eaction. I may be alone in this, but I don't go to the IHoP to see people breastfeeding or making out (no matter what orientation). No sir, I go there to eat crappy food and then feel sick and vaguely uneasy for three days following.
zeitgeist | December 28, 21:41 CET
¡Ya basta!
or..
¡Orale vato!
hbojo | December 28, 22:06 CET
Old Fan | December 28, 22:09 CET
Yes, but where do you think that milk for your pancakes comes from, eh? Breasts! Cow breasts! So you are, in a roundabout way, breastfeeding yourself there, mister! As for the making out...well, making out usually comes before sex, which can lead to the inevitable breastfeeding. It's all a wacky circle of natural functions, right there in your IHOP(or Denny's if you're looking to go the full week feeling sick.)
Rogue Slayer | December 28, 22:30 CET
Actually, not so much. The women who made up my breastfeeding support groups, message boards and listserves were among the most diverse groups of people I've ever encountered. From crunchy Berkeley vegans to gun-totin', red-meat-eatin', born-again Christian Republicans, we had them all. I'd like to believe that this is because breastfeeding is a public health issue that crosses all socical, political, economic and religious boundaries. The indisputable fact is that on the whole, feeding infants artificial baby milk rather than breastmilk makes our nation's children sicker. A mother who chooses to swim upstream and breastfeed her children deserve to be supported, not harassed.
And as for insistence that nursing mothers cover up with a blanket for the benefit of those who *may* be squeamish, have those of you who hold that view ever actually nursed a baby with a blanket? It's actually a bit of a pain in the ass. Nursing can be tricky enough in those early weeks when you're learning to help your physically helpless little one latch on and stay latched on without having to also hassle with keeping a blanket appropriately situated, not to mention nursing with an older, curious and wriggly baby who does not appreciate having their view of their surroundings obstructed.
Frankly, the idea that these mothers are a bunch of exhibitionists who like showing off their breasts is ridiculous. The vast majority of nursing mothers in this country do so "bottom up" rather than "top down," meaning that all that really gets exposed is maybe a little bit of tummy flab when they lift u