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January 16
2008
10 Most Moving Deaths.
SyFy Portal gives us a list of their 10 most moving deaths. Joss claims half the slots, and rightfully so.
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I agree with them all, but wish she had put Shepard Book and Jenny Calender in the main list and not the short list.
angeliclestat | January 16, 01:20 CET
JuliaL | January 16, 01:45 CET
I remember trying to calm down my then-girlfriend when Angel died, she screamed and threw my remote against the wall, smashing it into a bazillion pieces. :D
Joss still owes me a remote!!
[ edited by Whistler on 2008-01-16 01:59 ]
Whistler | January 16, 01:55 CET
joni | January 16, 01:55 CET
patxshand | January 16, 02:14 CET
[ edited by Dizzy on 2008-01-16 02:20 ]
Dizzy | January 16, 02:15 CET
embers | January 16, 02:40 CET
Yes, Wesley should have been on that list.
kishi | January 16, 02:42 CET
And even tho as a confirmed egotist I ended up doing personal fixes in my own AU (heck, if Glenn Quinn were still alive I'd probably have brought Doyle back,) I'm still moved just thinking of them.
DaddyCatALSO | January 16, 02:44 CET
chance | January 16, 03:12 CET
baxter | January 16, 03:15 CET
hitnrun017 | January 16, 03:36 CET
That's mainly meant to include shows other than Joss Whedon shows. (Believe it or not, "Moonlight" has a pretty adamant following!) Joss's shows could have taken up the whole list and then some!
Wesley's death, in my mind, was the most tragic in "Angel," but if you read the Season 6 comics, you may have a clue as to why he isn't on the list...
[ edited by Nebula1400 on 2008-01-16 04:00 ]
Nebula1400 | January 16, 03:57 CET
Reddygirl | January 16, 03:58 CET
Nebula1400 | January 16, 04:02 CET
delirium_haze | January 16, 04:04 CET
Nebula1400 | January 16, 04:06 CET
delirium_haze | January 16, 04:13 CET
The reason I feel Wesley was not on the list was because it happened in the last episode, and would not have happened if it was not the series finale. Someone HAS to die in a series finale. It's a tradition. That's why Wesley's death didn't mean as much to me (though Amy Acker's brilliant acting makes me cry).
Valentyn | January 16, 04:13 CET
That is all.
The next day a friend and colleague came to my office...we both cried a few minutes, and then she told me that her 10 year old daughter had to console her that night..."Chris, it was WESLEY....my prince! Wesley!!"
I was choking up with her.
We stayed friends, until, horribly, last year, she died, just a few months ago at 49...at the wake, I talked with all her family, and everybody related how glad she was that I introduced her (and her entire family) to Buffy...and Angel and Firefly.
Okay, I'm crying all over again...
With her on Wesley...what an amazing arc...
Chris inVirginia | January 16, 04:17 CET
baxter | January 16, 04:32 CET
(I have to agree with her about Trip's death on Enterprise, though. I tuned in to the series finale after having given up on the show almost two years previously and was dumbstruck by how badly they botched the show's ending. Voyager went out on a stronger note fer cripes' sake.)
[ edited by Roland the Headless Thompson Gunner on 2008-01-16 05:25 ]
Roland the Headless Thompson Gunner | January 16, 05:20 CET
Tonya J | January 16, 06:24 CET
I think the best example of this is Calendar. I was never crazy about the character--not that I disliked her, I just didn't have any particular love for her--but I still can't watch Passion without at least a few tears. Manly tears. Which is what separates, in my mind, Joss's deaths from the majority of television deaths... it's generally less for the shock/ratings pull of having someone die and more for the effect it has on everyone else.
Jobo | January 16, 06:25 CET
I was a fanatic XF fan, but it lost me in the last few seasons. I was never as obsessed with any other tv show before or after until I became aware of Joss Whedon's works, particularly Firefly.
I think that the reason that deaths in the Whedonverse seem to have such a profound impact on viewers is that the characters are not just secondary or peripheral, but characters that are important to the viewer and to the other characters in the show. When they die, the remaining characters are left to deal with the loss and their grief is portrayed in a very realistic manner. Whedonverse shows are also atypical in that Joss doesn't skip over any of the aftermath of death.
This is probably the primary reason I love Whedonverse shows - important events are dealt with long after they occur. Things are not reset at the beginning of the next episode. In other words, it's like real life in which things are sometimes messy and one's emotional response is not always rational or easily explained. When Wash was killed in the movie I was (of course) upset, but I eagerly anticipated how his death would be dealt with in the next movie (I know it's irrational, but I still cling to my thread of hope, no matter how thin :).
It irritates me to no end when shows seemingly forget or dismiss events from previous episodes. It also effectively removes most of the dramatic tension when the viewer knows that the important characters will somehow always make it through the peril of the week.
[ edited by JossIzBoss on 2008-01-16 06:38 ]
JossIzBoss | January 16, 06:33 CET
- Doyle never had time to grow on me. I saw him die, thought "hmm, interesting," looked up on IMDB to see he never showed up again, and moved on.
- From the moment I met Tara, I knew she was dead, thanks to the quite vocal fan base on the topic. Lacking the surprise, I could only imagine what others might have felt.
Frankly, I was shocked to find that Oz and Riley left the show without dying.
Furthermore, I would have put Angel's death, impermanent though it might have been, way higher than most of these, though. In retrospect, sure, we can say we saw he was going to come back, but wow, what an impact--not just that Angel died, but that Buffy had to kill him as she did... Still my favorite season end.
jclemens | January 16, 06:45 CET
Arguably, no character in the Whedonverse grew more than Wesley - he started as a whimpering caricature on Buffy, grew into a leader and hero, and had more than one tragic fall (baby Connor & the loss of Fred) before dying in the lap of his dead lover. I'll admit that no death scene had me in tears like his did.
Like Valentyn said, in the finale, someone has to die. Fitting that it was Wesley; after everything he'd been through, and then to lose Fred... it had to be him. Very moving.
AMCsoldier | January 16, 06:46 CET
In "Heroes," there have been many deaths, but the most gut-wrenching one was reversed - as others have been.
In "X-files," all the major characters who died came back at least once or twice.
In Stargate SG1, Daniel Jackson was resurrected.
In "Lost," it's never sure whether anyone is truly dead - or alive for that matter.
Buffy had a tear-worthy death at the end of Season 5, but was resurrected in Season 6. Angel "died" in Season 2, but it turned out he was just in a hell dimension.
The characters mentioned in the column died and stayed dead, except for flashbacks or as images used by "the First." Others not mentioned who stayed dead were Jenny Calendar, Book, Alex Whitman on "Roswell," Anya, and Cordy (more or less). Of course, we don't know who would have stayed dead if "Angel," "Buffy." or "Firefly" if those series had continued (though the comics are answering some of that). It's a pretty sure thing, though, that most other series won't permanently kill off characters we've become invested in. It's the ultimate finality of death that makes some deaths more moving than others.
Nebula1400 | January 16, 07:04 CET
Gee, some of you guys cry at only ONE part of The Body?!?!?! You guys have ducts of steel. I'm not usually a cryer, but pretty much spend that ep watching the Blurry TV Network. (And, both in the show, and then when watching the commentary, always back-bip Anya's kick-ass "I don't understand" speech, for a total of 4 viewings each run. Heck, I can lose it just THINKING of that speech. "... or yawn." -- Yep, losing it now.)
I leak. Recover. Then start leaking again, pretty much through the whole thing.
Before getting far enough in Angel to see our old buddy Spike brought back, that one was also saddened me. Here, he was finally doing the right thing for basically the right reasons. And, despite everything, I just can't help it, but I LIKE the guy.
In a way, for me, Book's death had less impact, as it was part of the slaughter of all those people. Not that it had no impact, but I was reeling from the horror of all those folks, and the senselessness of it all.
Wosh. That just HURT.
And, of course, with Knoxie, it was his turning out to be bad guy that was more devastating than his death. By the time he died, I'm like, "GOOD, ya freak!" (That actor's death in Firefly wouldn't count, would it, as he was a one-off. Wasn't the list regulars?)
BTW, I -- who abhor violence, and can't believe I'm confessing this to you all -- actually CHEERED when Walsh got it. Even before knowing the whole story of her, I HATED her. Anyone who could give that speech to Wil is the sort of person who would kick puppies and torment kittens.
Tara, especially considering everything that that Whedon meany put her through, from emotionally abusive childhood ("You're inherently evil, and must wait on the menfolk."), to getting her hand pulverized and sanity sucked out, betrayal (twice!) by the love of her life ("playing with my memory"), and FINALLY, when all is well....
Uh, why DO we love that Whedon guy? He's a right *%$#&^%@#$ when you think about it.
For shock, even before Jenny (which was pretty shocking, though I never felt that someone who would drag Giles to a Monster Truck Show has a right way of thinking), was Principal Flutie (which I just saw yet again a couple of nights ago). I was really stunned that, yes, that character was really dead, in a permanent way. And not a pretty (well, pretty GROSS) way. That amazed me. I've been so used to big events being "fixed" by next week -- I believe Joss calls it "reset TV" -- it blew me away.
Wow! On this show, regular characters really die and are, like, uh, DEAD. (Well, some of them.) No "Better now!" stuff.
I haven't seen mention of Cordy. (Of course, I'll soon be watching her less permanent death in The Wish -- all of those upset me -- but I mean the Angel one.) That was off-screen though, so perhaps doesn't count. Bummed me OUT. Having disliked her so, for such a long time, and watching her grow a heart....
She gets the award for "legitimately feeling bad for someone you don't like" when she's in the hospital after seeing Xander with Wil. But that's a different list, isn't it?
OK, I've gone as far off-topic as I can stretch, which is saying a LOT. Bye, now!
tehabwa | January 16, 07:09 CET
Wesley's death angered me. It wasn't cool enough, and I'm glad he's back, in a fashion. He needs to still be involved, and honored more.
Tara? She will return. I am so sure of that. And Kennedy will be shunted aside and cast off, perhaps to create her own faction of Slayers. She is a strong character, but I personally vehemently dislike her. I think it would be cool, ONCE Tara returns, that Kennedy branches off and does her own thing, angrily.
Wash. Ugh. That was a shockingly putrid death, and one that I still to this day have no handle on. It wasn't necessary, and it was indulgent. It is the one death in Joss' verse that I still don't understand (even more than Anya's), and really don't get WHY it had to happen. Like the story wasn't enough without it? Uh uh. It would have been just as gripping and great without sacrificing him. I wasn't NECESSARY to forward the tale. It was a useless death.
Anya. I understood. But it needed more acknowledgement, more fanfare. She needed to be honored, and she wasn't. She died underfoot. I need something additional with this one. Always will.
Joyce. Fine. Okay with it, and smeary with tears for two days after I saw it. A good sacrifice to a fine character. Was okay eventually.
Jenny. Nope. Giles needed a cool lady. She was it and she was murdered. Her death was one of the defining moments of Angelus to me. Bastard. Zero redemption, baby. Fuck you for killing her. She was awesome and she could've been a GREAT Scooby. I still want her back but I think it would be an awkward re-introduction. If anyone can do it though, it would be our man Joss.
Willowy | January 16, 07:37 CET
With Farscape, they are in serious life-or-death peril for nearly every minute of the show, and if I didn't know for sure that SOMEHOW they'd survive, I'd be far too stressed out to actually watch the show. Heck, in one episode, Crichton gets nearly disintegrated, nearly gassed to death, actually chucked into space after his ship explodes, and THEN gets turned into a stone statue, decapitated, and has his head chucked in acid!
There's no way I could watch that if I didn't know he'd get through it...
deird | January 16, 07:43 CET
twinkiefoo | January 16, 08:49 CET
Dan Corson | January 16, 09:20 CET
Stylewise IMO Joss favours the surprise hit that you don't see coming, whack, and then the aftermath, while the Wire does the slower, this can't be good, this is getting worse, can they really, nooooo, and then nothing except maybe a throwaway line or two.
[ edited by jpr on 2008-01-16 10:02 ]
jpr | January 16, 09:44 CET
5. Buffy's mum, such a good episode!
4. Fred - really felt for Wesley as his love left him
3. Buffy at the end of series 5, I just love Spike's reaction - touches me everytime I see him collapse to his knees
2. Angel at the end of series 2 - the moment when Buffy realises he has his soul back but kills him anyway, puts a lump in my throat
1. Wesley - was my favourite character from Angel, he had the most interesting journey through the series and would have traded his death for all of the rest of the gang!
[ edited by SmileTime on 2008-01-16 09:55 ]
SmileTime | January 16, 09:55 CET
I would have gone with the death of Tucker's baby daughter in the ST: Enterprise episode "Terra Prime" as that had a devastating impact on me. It was on an emotional par with the "best" Joss deaths.
Simon | January 16, 10:14 CET
Wash's death in Serenity had me in floods of tears, and genuinely all I could say (periodically) for about four hours after leaving the cinema was, 'They killed Wash!?!'
ArielWillow | January 16, 11:13 CET
Wesley was one of the more moving for me as far as the actual death goes and was also IMO, totally appropriate for the character - if anyone shouldn't have had a "cool" death in all the Angelverse it's Wes - and Buffy's in 'The Gift' is just beautiful, SMG's face as she lines up for her last run, sun rising i.e. the literal "Dawn" of a new day just breaks me every time (for the discussion, I realise it doesn't strictly qualify). Fred because it was so horrible, Tara because it was so mundane, Wash because it was so shocking (to me) and because, well, it was Wash, y'know ?
One that I remember from my youth was the death of Zen in "Blake's 7" (and that was a sci-fi show with plenty of permanent deaths, up to and including the entire main cast by the end of the final episode). Zen, for those not familiar with the show, was the AI which ran the heroes' ship, "The Liberator". So yeah, I got really broken up about the death of a computer ;).
Adric's death in 'Doctor Who' was moving just because it was unexpected - The Doctor was the magic-man, literally able to hold back the tide, his friends never died, let alone teenage boys with their whole lives ahead of them. They also rolled the credits silently - without the theme music - which was very effective, I remember just sitting there in a sort of stunned stupor, not really believing what had happened.
Non-genre (or non-SF&F at least), I thought Danny from 'Spooks' had a moving death though it was also cool, sort of along the lines of Spike in 'Chosen'. Ballsy and defiant and calculating all at the same time - worthy of a spy in other words.
(Jonathan Kent though, really ? Could've been worse but I was mainly just relieved it wasn't Chloe, didn't, don't and won't miss him, he was a very one-note character IMO and his death is almost necessary in the Superman mythos, something has to push Clark to wear his pants on the outside ;)
Saje | January 16, 11:18 CET
But as for most shocking, hurtful Whedon death? That would be Wash, my friends. *sigh (in a good way)*
UnpluggedCrazy | January 16, 11:49 CET
Basically, Wash's death rammed my heart into my throat, and the following fight kept it right there until the Alliance guys lowered their guns.
That is one of the biggest reasons I love and hate Joss.
J.
Jay Tea | January 16, 12:57 CET
When Wash was killed, I gasped, thinking, Oh...My...God...he's going to kill them all...
Jay Tea, right there with you.
Chris inVirginia | January 16, 14:16 CET
On Angel the death that probably upset me most was Cordy. The final scene with her and Angel sets me off crying every time and I loved her so much. Doyle's death is a strange one, when I watched it the first few times it was incredibly sad (the bit that always got me was them watching the tape back at the end) but after Glenn Quinn's death I find myself watching the episode in denial and I can't really get upset in the same way.
Funnily enough I think I still don't believe Wesley is dead so the one that affects me most when I watch Not Fade Away is Lindsey. Damn I loved that evil guy. When Lilah is killed mid-way through S4 I was surprised but not too upset, but when she comes back in Home and Wesley tries to save her oh man I cried.
In Buffy I'd agree with whoever said The Body needs a different category as that episode affects me more deeply than any of the other deaths (on any tv show ever) - the next episode Forever is more conventional but I still burst into tears when Dawn and Buffy are arguing at the end:
BUFFY: I've been busy because I have to... I have to do these things, 'cause, 'cause when I stop, then she's really gone. And I'm trying, Dawn, I am really trying to take care of things. But I don't even know what I'm doing! Mom always knew.
DAWN: Nobody's asking you to be mom.
BUFFY: Well who's gonna be if I'm not? Huh, Dawn? Have you even thought about that!? Who's gonna make things better? Who's gonna take care of us?
That SMG is pretty good huh?
Working outside the rules Buffy's death in The Gift hurt me the most, followed by Spike's death in Chosen but on rewatching the series the death that always gets me in a soggy mess every time is Angel's in Becoming Pt2, even though I don't really like Angel in Buffy and I know that he's coming back, the circumstances of it, the music, the writing and SMG's acting just get me every time.
Leaf | January 16, 14:17 CET
She really is... I'm sad because, apart from Buffy, I feel like she hasn't had a chance to show off her skills. I'm looking forward to The Air I Breathe, critics praised her performance there.
Valentyn | January 16, 14:30 CET
Agreed. Just the memory of it chokes me up, as does the whole episode.
I also agree with those who were more moved by Wesley's death (and the scene immediately following) than Fred's.
One of the deaths that flat-out dropped my jaw most in all cinematic history was Wash's. It was a total "WHAT?!!" moment.
And finally, I agree that Buffy allowed SMG opportunity to show an amazing array of skills. I'd expect her often to express appreciation for the excellent lines and scenes she was given to work with, and the fans who gave her such a base from which to work.
filops | January 16, 15:43 CET
Agreed. Which was the point of it, I think.
filops | January 16, 15:48 CET
Willowy: Glad to know somebody shares my opinion on what really happened to Cordelia.
Saje: A former cyberfriend of mine in Northern Ireland said he actually cried at that "B7" ending. I realize I'm violating "Trust the tale, not the teller" here but the writers for Blake's 7 did say in an interview a few years back that they intended that Avvon had survived and they still had plans for a sequel. (I once visualized a BtVS S-7 ending mimicking it.)
DaddyCatALSO | January 16, 16:17 CET
Yes, filops, I agree: that was definitely the point of it, after Book's death I felt that all the rest of my BDHs were safe. But then after Wash died all bets were off and I was afraid that Joss was really planning on 'thinning the herd'. Every time anyone was injured I was afraid that they were the next to die. It was shocking and terrifying, worse than all the deaths on Buffy and Angel put together.
embers | January 16, 16:39 CET
It was a great ending DaddyCatALSO. The part that choked me up a bit was Villa, the perennial coward and weakling of the group, picking up a gun and taking his hit after Dayna gets shot. He liked her y'see. Awww ;).
And yep, Kerr Avon lived, I have never doubted that in my heart of hearts ;).
(you don't actually see him get shot, it ends with him surrounded, the last frame being a close up of his face, he smiles his cynical, "fuck the world" smile, we hear a shot and then several shots in response and that's it. The slightly jokey fan-wank has long been that he ducks and the baddies all shoot each other ;-)
Saje | January 16, 16:41 CET
The deaths of Fred and Wesley were not all that striking to me. I'm not saying they were bad, but they lacked the power of, say, Angel's death in Becoming Part II and the force of surprise of Jenny Calendar's in Passion and Buffy's in The Gift. Wesley's, in particular, moved me only slightly. Illyria's deeply human grief was terrific, of course, but something about the death itself felt too plotted to me, almost as if the writers felt obliged to leave some bodies on the stage because this was the FINAL episode and they wanted a big climax. That same sense of obligation diminished the deaths of Spike and Anya in Chosen, for the same reason (i.e., final episode, big climax, need bodies).
1starbuckstown | January 16, 17:10 CET
Coming right after Wash's shocking death, I was thinking, "Oh, crap — he might kill them all."
And River, I knew she was dead when she ran off.
filops | January 16, 17:36 CET
jcs | January 16, 17:37 CET
For some reason, River and Mal (by the time we get to "My turn" anyway) were the only two I didn't consider at real risk. Before they go through the door though, as one by one they start getting hit, I did wonder if we were looking at 'The Sp-Wild Sp-Bunch' ;).
Saje | January 16, 17:48 CET
She was not at all a sympathetic character, but at the end she knew what she was drinking... and drunk it anyway. Revealing depths of character we hardly got a glimpse of before.
Mild Mike | January 16, 18:20 CET
First off, I should note that I've only gotten into the Whedonverse in the past year or so. That means a whole lot of it was spoiled in pop culture references and such before I watched them. Which in turns mean I knew a lot of the deaths were going to happen before they did, and I'll point out when that made things different.
Jenny Calendar: I actually haven't seen the episode where Jenny dies. I had just started getting into Buffy, and had just read most of the first and second season as transcripts online. Now that I have the complete Joss collection on DVDs, I guess I'll finally see it. I doubt it will have much of an impact, since I wasn't really in love with the character, I was sort of indifferent to her.
Angel: I knew there was a series called Angel, so I knew he'd be back.
Joyce: While I think I shed burly man tears during "The Body," I didn't mourn or grieve for Joyce like I did for other characters. I think it's because we see how all the other characters mourn her. The episode did such a good job, I got all the mourning out of the way by episode's end.
Tara: I knew Tara was going to die before it happened, but it was still sad. Again, I think because we got to see the grief of her friends (especially Willow and Dawn), it meant I didn't have to. It was an expected death, so it didn't hold the punch it would normally have.
Anya: This death hit me the hardest in all of the Buffy deaths. Anya was my favourite character for most of the show, and to have her die so suddenly and so unexpectedly was a blow. I was angry for a long time that we didn't get to see much reaction from the other characters concerning her death, and I still hope to see some in the Season Eight comics.
Spike: Knew he was going to be in Angel, no biggie. Though I will admit I was a bit surprised.
Doyle: Again, this one was a real blow, despite pseudo-knowing that it was coming. I knew Joss was going to kill off a main character not too long after the show started, and Doyle was the only one who it made sense to kill at that point. But I really liked the character and I had a bit of a mourning period for him. I actually checked to see if he'd be coming back in desperation, and to find out that Glenn Quinn had died was like a slap to the face.
Cordelia: For some reason the first time I saw "You're Welcome" it didn't really have too big an impact on me. Yes, it was sad, but I don't think and tears squeaked out. But when I rewatched it recently (with commentary, no less), they came out. Odd.
Fred: I knew it was coming, but the performances by Alexis and Amy in the scene just brought it home, plus the desperation of the rest of the group in trying to save her. I knew they wouldn't, but it didn't stop me from pleading with the screen that they would.
Wesley: Again, a death I knew was coming but one that still was like a punch in the gut because of the performances. I even knew about the "lie to me" bit, and it still got me. I think maybe it's because Wesley was such a tragic character, and he met a tragic end. It was like the cherry on top of a sundae of pain and anguish that I felt for the character.
Wash: I sort of knew it was coming. A friend had composed a little song when drunk one night about how sad she was that Wash had been killed, but that was years before I even knew what Firefly was. So I didn't quite remember, but I had an idea. I was still shocked on how quick it happened. I don't think it really sunk in, and I don't know if I've ever let the man-tears come out for it, because every time I see it the shock is still there.
I don't think I missed anyone...
Nolan | January 16, 18:40 CET
Doyle's death was really tragic and so was Joyce's.
i hadn't seen moonlight so i kinda got spoiled but i'd seen it coming. still, wasn't so terribly tragic.
Aeryn's 'death' in the s2 finale of farscape was much,much sadder.
and although it isn't exactly death, the s2 finale of Doctor Who, Doomsday never fails to make me cry.
i have not seen angel for a while so to be honest i do not remember wesley's or fred's deaths particularly well. i remember the aftermath of fred's, it was quite heartbreaking.
well, im watching it again now
spike's death was really sad, at least for me. i didn't know he was coming back.
how about buffy's?
okelay | January 16, 18:54 CET
I think the point behind Lorne 's being willing to kill Lindsey w as because he realized as much as Angel did, in his different way, that Lindsey would by nature always be part of t he problem and, if he didn't seize the second chance he got when he'd left town before, he never would.
DaddyCatALSO | January 16, 18:54 CET
She forgets that, before that, Joyce herself also returns in S6 "Normal Again". But she's not real.
Or is she?
Vague That Up | January 16, 19:42 CET
SeanValen | January 16, 23:06 CET
BTW, the death that hit me the hardest was Wesley, I think. Mostly because he didn't get a chance to recover from his own grief. And that has always bothered me. And of course Wash, because I did not see that coming!
NYPinTA | January 16, 23:22 CET
Yes, that is exactly what this feels like. And I have a hard time picking one painful death over another. Wesley's was horrible but I felt that he would never be happy and maybe this was a better way for him. But Wash, Fred, Tara - the sweet ones being killed - so very hard to take. And I too felt that poor Anya deserved more mourning that she got.
Lioness | January 17, 02:32 CET
I mean, she was doing what she was asked, what was needed, defending her spot, trying to prevent the uber-vamps from getting out into the world. I didn't see it as pointless (well, yes, death by violence by definition, but the verse(s) deal with most stuff with violence, all metaphory, etc.).
But Anya's death, though sad and all, wasn't pointless. She had decided to stupidly fight with the stupid humans who are stupid for fighting, but somehow, that seemed the thing to do (for all the right reasons). And she did. In that skirmishy part of the whole battle, she was killed by the sort of monster she was fighting.
On the other hand, most people doing the commentaries seemed to think that the show was for teens ONLY, Giles wasn't hot, and all sorts of silly things. (Not only is this middle-aged broad hooked that "teen" show, but, frankly, the 16-yr-old me would have had as much a crush on Giles as on Xander, maybe more, as he's all booky and smart and all, not to mention one of the all-time great stutterers, which is almost unbearably cute.)
As for the whole Not Mourning Anya point several have made, well, yes, but there really wasn't the time or narrative space. It wasn't until standing outside the bus that the Scoobs knew. Xander, no doubt, mourned off-screen, after the series had ended.
(Speaking of deaths, there were several potentials lost, but I guess they weren't majory enough for any lists. I'm bad with names, but the one from SD, who saw Counselor Buffy, hurt, too, even though we don't really know anything about her. Amanda?)
Re: Doyle. I was devestated, and, not being long in the fanVerse, more so about the actor (didn't know that little irony).
I LOVED Doyle, and grieved his sacrifice (which, strictly speaking, he did to save Angel, who was going to sacrifice himself for the group of demons they were helping flee -- I mean, yes, he did it to help those demons, but the proximate cause of his sacrifice was preventing Angel from going bye-bye).
"And our rats are low...."
Well, yes, they would be, wouldn't they?
So, am I as sick as Joss for finding this thread fun, in its way?
tehabwa | January 17, 03:18 CET
Anyone who lives for tragedy in their drama (and comedy, and awesome acting and writing) needs to watch Six Feet Under. All five seasons of the HBO series are out on DVD. That series handles death, loss, and life-in-the-face-of-death better than most shows.
And yeah, I said "lives for tragedy in their drama". I go after shows that I think will have that emotional pull and, probably, eventually, some earned tragedy (key word being earned). I dare TV and film to try and make me cry. The material that does gets huge props (even if I have to individualize parts of them--like a movie could kinda suck, but maybe part of it is seriously moving...or Enterprise was mediocre to poor overall, but Trip's clone's death was difficult and self-reflective-inducing, along with he and T'Pol's grief over their daughter's death).
[ edited by Kris on 2008-01-17 05:49 ]
Kris | January 17, 05:48 CET
Well, besides Spike, but that's another story. :D
noandwhere | January 17, 05:57 CET
Uh, did anyone miss this? "That's my girl. Always doing the stupid." I thought that was extremely heartfelt and moving, but apparently I'm on my own.
UnpluggedCrazy | January 17, 13:51 CET
(she fell even quicker on the pre-watershed BBC version of 'Chosen' because her death was cut to just a brief flash. Still, she fared better than Amanda who, Schrodinger's Cat style, was, as far as I knew, still alive until I watched the later uncut showing. That came as a bit of a shock I can tell you ;)
Saje | January 17, 14:25 CET
filops | January 17, 21:59 CET