The Ten Most Heartbreaking Television Episodes (Of The Last 20 Years).
Pajiba lists the 10 most heartbreaking television episodes of the last 20 years. Guess which episode of Buffy comes in at #3?
'The Body' comes in at #3.
June 19 2009
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Vortigun | June 19, 23:19 CET
Right there with you. I think it was also the first time I cried while watching a TV show. It felt like an initiation.
wiesengrund | June 19, 23:23 CET
I like the mention of the episode "M.I.A." of Quantum Leap. Such a sad episode. It didn't seem fair that Sam couldn't change Al's past for the better.
twinkiefoo | June 19, 23:28 CET
Rachelkachel | June 19, 23:30 CET
Nice to have the episode recognized.
Emmie | June 19, 23:31 CET
Vortigun | June 19, 23:32 CET
witchlover | June 19, 23:39 CET
didifallasleep | June 19, 23:40 CET
But kudos to them for including Futurama. That episode (and the one mentioned in the comments) are what secure Futurama's position as the best animated show of all time for me.
kishi | June 19, 23:44 CET
Would've liked to see "Final Grades," The Wire's fourth season finale, though. That episode is gut wrenching.
The Xan Man | June 19, 23:54 CET
didifallasleep | June 20, 00:00 CET
"Everyone's Waiting," from Six Feet Under.
Logan breaking down in Season One in the hotel, Dick breaking down in Season Three, and all three finales of Veronica Mars.
"Becoming Part II," "The Gift," "The Body," "Fool for Love," and "Chosen" from Buffy.
"Hero," "Benediction," "You're Welcome," "A Hole in the World," and "Shells" from Angel.
The third season finale of "Weeds."
I love TV.
patxshand | June 20, 00:01 CET
Simon | June 20, 00:03 CET
And I think I've told this story here before, so apologies for that.
cronopiogal | June 20, 00:05 CET
[ edited by HairyLime on 2009-06-20 00:13 ]
HairyLime | June 20, 00:12 CET
The pilot of "Dead Like Me" has me bawling. Best pilot ever, seriously.
Definitely Charlie's death on "Lost," as well as "The Shape of Things to Come." Whew.
Last but not least... the third season finale of "Six Feet Under." When Ruth re-marries and pictures Nathanial in the corner of the kitchen weeping... wow. And then when Claire imagines she sees Gabe... Need to rewatch this.
patxshand | June 20, 00:16 CET
But yeah, The Body deserves a spot on that list.
hitnrun017 | June 20, 00:19 CET
TDBrown | June 20, 00:24 CET
patxshand | June 20, 00:26 CET
Remembering "The Wire," though... the S4 finale was indeed a heartbreaker, but the second-to-last episode showed how gut-wrenching TV can get with just a long pause.
ManEnoughToAdmitIt | June 20, 01:00 CET
XanMan | June 20, 01:17 CET
NikkiSixx | June 20, 01:23 CET
patxshand | June 20, 01:23 CET
Side note: The flashback scenes of "Two Cathedrals" were filmed in my hometown, which was the same location as "Dead Poets Society". In fact, I can see my classmates as extras in the flashbacks. Also, that episode was brilliant.
crazygolfa | June 20, 01:30 CET
If I had to pick the most heartbreaking ep, it'd probably be one of a handful from seasons 2-4, though it's hard to pick a single one. The scene where Oz leaves would probably be my single most heartbreaking scene in all of Buffy. That's be a strong contender. I Only Have Eyes For You is another contender, but I'm not sure I could call the overall mood "heartbreaking", and it does end pretty positively.
I'm gonna have to go with Wild at Heart. There was no upside to that.
dispatch | June 20, 01:30 CET
I also agree setting it to music is irritating and self-defeating.
Oh I also cried like a baby when I saw Everyone's waiting.
ginalee | June 20, 01:34 CET
I pretty much cry during every episode of Lost just because of how awesome it is.
I could add so many Buffy and Angel episodes to the list as well. I can't even hear the score from 'The Gift' without tearing up.
twinkiefoo | June 20, 02:28 CET
GVH | June 20, 02:52 CET
madmolly | June 20, 03:17 CET
I also agree that "A Whole in the World" should have been included. Such a heartbreaking ep. :(
Jossfan_21 | June 20, 03:17 CET
I thought the episode with Warren's April bot was pretty heartbreaking too. April just wanted him to love her and in the end she pretty much "died" in a sense.
iwearthecheese | June 20, 03:36 CET
Also that Futurama episode not only made me tear up but one of the most macho friends I have who likes to pretend he is basically a robot without emotions. I asked him if he had seen that episode and he signaled to me by nodding and dragging his finger from his eye to his cheek and nodded again.
silent knight | June 20, 04:05 CET
So, am I the only one who's depressed now? Great.
shinyEcho | June 20, 04:08 CET
And regarding Futurama, why has no one yet mentioned the great 'Time Keeps on Slippin'? Very touching ending right there.
Break_Atmo | June 20, 05:50 CET
Many of the Doctor Who episodes mentioned are powerful tearjerkers as well. I'd include "Doomsday" (the S2 finale), "The Family of Blood", and "Journey's End" (the S4 finale) as my top three from that show.
JossIzBoss | June 20, 06:24 CET
Cassidy's death in "Resurrection" and Evan's death in...hmm...I can't even remember the title of that episode of "Nash Bridges" - both of those hurt. They did an incredible no-sound, slightly distorted camera-work thing when Nash learns about his daughter dying in the hospital, and the later scene w/Joe up on the roof w/Nash trying to console him, and Nash is telling Joe about the plans he'd had for Cass's life...GUH!
And poor Harv having to call Nash to tell him about Evan's death, and Nash can't react because he's undercover...ouch.
The end of "The Message" when the crew delivers Tracey's body to his family and the snow falls and Mal hands the recorder to his parents.
This probably doesn't count, since it was a made-for-TV movie, but if anyone's ever seen Shame with Amanda Donohue, Fairuza Balk & Dean Stockwell, specifically the end scene with Lizzie & Tim Curtis...
ShadowQuest | June 20, 06:54 CET
I'm surprised nobody's mentioned The Gift. There's something so collapsing about seeing Dawn, Willow and Spike's reactions. I'm pretty much a soppy mess from "Dawnie I have to..."
edt: wow - loads of people mentioned The Gift. How unthorough am i?
[ edited by curlymynci on 2009-06-20 07:39 ]
curlymynci | June 20, 07:37 CET
Jobo | June 20, 07:50 CET
RheaM | June 20, 08:14 CET
As far as the Lost episode goes, was I the only person who utterly hated Charlie? I mean, I don't much like Lost anyway but he irritated the hell out of me. When he was resuscitated in season one I cried because I just could'nt bear the thought of hearing 'You all everybody' one more fucking time.
Progressive_Stupidity | June 20, 08:25 CET
Also the Angel episode I will remember you..
That last part where they are in each others arms and Buffy finds out they only have like 30 seconds left.. ugh heartbreaking.
m0j0NL | June 20, 09:10 CET
"The Body" had to be on the list of course, and I'm glad it included "M.I.A" from Quantum Leap, though I would also have included "Mirror Image", the series finale for the beautiful and heartbreaking ending.
And I love Scrubs, but I don't think the episode deserved second place.
Nico-Angel | June 20, 12:04 CET
ern | June 20, 12:06 CET
The clip made me remember that Peter Krause is one of my favorite actors ever. And wonder what's happened to the amazing Lauren Ambrose, as Clair was my second (to Nate) favorite character.
As much as I loved The West Wing, I'd classify the ep they chose more as Shakespearean high tragedy, than an actual heartbreaker.
Charlie's death in Lost is literally the only moment of (what I've seen of) the show, that really moved me emotionally, one reason I've only watched it intermittently, since the end of season two.
There's no other show on the list that I've ever watched.
But I have to give a mention to Sleeping in Light, the series finale of Babylon5, which I sobbed my way through. That show was such a genre ground breaker, it was impossible at the time to convince anyone who wasn't already a SciFi devotee, that I (and the two other B5 fanatics I watched with), weren't completely crazy, to be so emotionally involved in a "space show". (I also cried when Kosh and his ship took their final journey, and when Marcus took his).
I'd definitely add a couple of eps of The Wire. I can't remember specifically, but I think probably the same ones mentioned by The Xan Man and MamEnoughtoadmitIt
As for Buffy, I agree with a couple of comments along the lines that The Body was more like a numbing punch to the gut than a classic heartbreaker. To this day I've only given it one re-watch, and probably wont ever watch it again.
For waterworks inducing eps, I'd have to go with Becoming pt2, just for the last ten minutes or so. Also Wild at Heart, and Fool For Love (also for the very end). And Grave.
No mention for anything for Angel (or BSG, for that matter) is just incomprehensible. A Hole in the World and Shells would be my Angel picks (I really dislike the soapy angst of IWRY).
The only thing in Firefly that ever made me cry was Inara sobbing in Heart of Gold.
[ edited by Shey on 2009-06-20 12:14 ]
Shey | June 20, 12:12 CET
Madhatter | June 20, 12:28 CET
Aviva | June 20, 12:48 CET
For Buffy can we really skip the first scooby kill, Miss Calendar? When Willow sobs that first sob and hands off the phone, or when Buffy kills Angel for the first time and 'full of grace' starts to play. Angel does it for me everytime when Wesley dies.Firefly doesn't make me cry, having no more firefly makes me cry.
Now does anyone else remember "The Pretender" Jarrod, the Center, Miss parker?. I'm throwing in when Miss P's love Tommy is killed. And for those of us who love a good cry, Greys Anatomy, Deny.
Ok, I'm done.
treenie | June 20, 12:59 CET
treenie | June 20, 13:02 CET
jkalderash | June 20, 13:19 CET
Jobo | June 20, 14:17 CET
menomegirl | June 20, 15:42 CET
redders | June 20, 16:55 CET
angry_puppy | June 20, 17:53 CET
I was actually surprised that it was "The Body" that made the list. Sad, yes, but didn't break my heart.
The Gift or Becoming 2 were the ones I expected.
Even I Will Remember You made me cry more.
A Hole in the World didn't get to me as much because I resented the manipulation of the sudden Wes/Fred relationship.
Although I did a recent re-watch that and Shells and it was extremely difficult to watch especially that montage with A Place Called Home because of the real death of Andy Hallet. We mourned Fred the character, but Andy is really gone. That's heartbreaking.
Xane | June 20, 17:59 CET
Also, I don't know you, but *hugs* cronopiogal.
catherine | June 20, 18:34 CET
Simon | June 20, 20:20 CET
However, that being said, some thirty years later, it resulted in one of the funniest damn moments of one of the funniest damn sitcoms around. Alan Alda has recently been guest starring on "30 Rock." Through a series of circumstances that would require too much context to explain here, he finds himself looking on as Tracy Jordan bawls. Before walking away, he says casually to himself, "A grown man crying over a chicken and a baby? I thought this was a comedy show."
Seriously. I couldn't stop laughing for hours.
XanMan | June 20, 21:09 CET
Now I have to try and make the remaining two discs last until "Dollhouse" resumes in September.
Tin Ear Tom | June 21, 00:41 CET
treenie | June 21, 02:38 CET
Scoffing at Gravity | June 21, 04:51 CET
I absolutely agree with The Body being included in a list of this type, and if one had been chosen from Angel, I'd choose A Hole in the World over Not Fade Away. It was hard to watch Wes die, but it was pretty much a done deal. With Fred, you knew Spike and Angel were doing everything they could and still they couldn't save her. That's what was doubly heartbreaking, even though Wes was with her to the end.
Tonya J | June 21, 05:35 CET
jclemens | June 21, 06:01 CET
jlp | June 21, 07:08 CET
Jobo | June 21, 08:12 CET
trev4 | June 21, 08:39 CET
Hole in the World, not so much. Just not into Fred/Wes.
On Lost, Sayid's reaction to, well, the death of any girl he's been involved with gets me too.
[ edited by redeem147 on 2009-06-21 15:05 ]
redeem147 | June 21, 15:04 CET
Buffy is my favorite television show of all time, Six Feet Under a close second. 'The Body' doesn't do it for me so much. Yes, it was about the shock and numbness and horror of what you feel when someone close to you dies, but for me that episode doesn't necessarily capture the heartbreak of life and how it changes you. It was hard to watch everyone grieve. But for me, the strength and isolation displayed in Becoming Pt. II kicked my ass when I saw it for the first time at thirteen and still does to this day at twenty-three. I am apparently an easy crier, and just the opening notes of "Full of Grace" is enough to make me blubber. Close your eyes, Angel's arm reached out as the panic dawns, Buffy's hands rushing to her face as she breaks down, Willow's resolute and worried "She'll be here," you are now leaving Sunnydale. We are indeed, and things will never be the same.
ailiel | June 21, 17:04 CET
Angel episodes: I Will Remember You, A Hole in the World/Shells and Sleep Tight (the image of Angel lying on the floor in tears at the end *sob*)
Shep | June 21, 18:28 CET
Leeloo | June 21, 21:47 CET
rilynil | June 22, 01:27 CET
Madhatter | June 22, 02:08 CET
Gee, Joss is such a cheery guy.
redeem147 | June 22, 02:10 CET
At the Stephen King's ranch while he's putting his brood to bed:
(King)"Hey, want to hear a story?"
(Kids) "No Daddy, no!!"
Madhatter | June 22, 02:51 CET
For heartbreaking I would go with The Gift, or Becoming Pt 2, both always make me cry. The Body makes me numb.
For Angel I would go with Hole in the World, Fred's death is long, slow, and painful. Not Fade Away always makes me tear up too when Wesley dies, but the rest of the episode is not heartbreaking to me.
Passion | June 22, 13:20 CET
Lots of Buffy/Angel/Firefly/Dollhouse episodes make me cry, but sticking with the truely 'heartbreaking' ones I'll go for Becoming pt 2, The Body, The Gift (the ending makes me cry but the heartbreaking stuff is Buffy missing her mum) and Dead Things for Buffy. Though it's not an episode I like that much Angel's final line in Double or Nothing of 'I had a son' just about kills me every time - also Five By Five, AYNOHYEB, Darla, Home (Damn you Tim!), the list could go on forever. Man on the Street kinda makes my heart hurt as well, but in that confusing Jossy way.
For non-Whedon shows I think every other ER episode is set up to make you cry (or that's my excuse), specifically I'll name: The Healers (Raoul dies), Take These Broken Wings (Susan loses Suzie), The Peace of Wild Things (Alan Alda cries!), All In The Family (Lucy dies), The Crossing (Luka's family dies), Orion in the Sky/The Letter/On The Beach (Mark dies), The Lost (the Congo sucks!), Midnight (Carter's baby dies), Time of Death (Ray Liotta dies), Age of Innocence (Brenner was abused). Wow, a lot of people die on ER!
Have to echo some of the episodes mentioned up-thread as well like The Wire's 'Final Grades' and Battlestar Galactica's 'Blood on the Scales', 'Maelstrom', 'Occupation', 'Unfinished Business' and 'Sometimes a Great Notion'.
[ edited by Leaf on 2009-06-23 16:10 ]
Leaf | June 23, 16:02 CET