August 08 2004
Could watching Buffy be detrimental?
Article in Asian paper regarding the increasing amount of teen TV junkies stating, "But if the kid spends hours watching drama serials for entertainment, that could be detrimental." Citing Buffy as the drama kids seem most obsessed about.
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aapac | August 08, 09:31 CET
but seriously,
"They spend 2.3 hours, or half of their total leisure time, glued to the tube"
psshh! that's nothing, they should worry when those kids start going for my record!
redtenko | August 08, 10:40 CET
And I promise you most teenagers watch tv a LOT more than 2.3 hours a day.
This actually reminds me of the crap some people told my mother when I was young. They'd see me read comics and warn her to stop me from doing that because it would cause 'reading-laziness' (free translation from the dutch) and I would never be able to read normal books. Pretty much bullhonkey since I've been an avid comic reader all my life, as well as an avid novel reader. Big piles o' books all over the place. Always left me with a dislike for the "oooh that's bad for them".
Yes anything is bad when taken to extremes. Watching TV 10 hours a day would not be a good thing. Well so would reading about politics for 10 hours a day.
Sounds like a clear example of people not having a clue about the actual show, but just notice "those kids" watching and 'obsessing"...ooohhh must be wrong and detrimental since THEY didn't do that when they were young.
Ah time for bed, I'm crabby.
EdDantes | August 08, 11:09 CET
Caleb | August 08, 11:49 CET
Simon | August 08, 12:00 CET
Newsflash: today's generation are not going out starting wars. Today's generation are exposed to multi-cultural societies on the television, and do not grow up with strong racial and cultural prejudices like previous generations. Today's generation actually enjoy good stories and form communities, friendships and attend gatherings based on that.
I do really dislike it when people start complaining about the things other people enjoy doing. When your country is complaining about a generation enjoying themselves harmlessly, you know that Hitler's Rise to Power is just around the corner again.
The Host | August 08, 18:05 CET
That's on my shortlist for Favorite Whedonesque Quote Of The Year.
prufrock | August 08, 18:21 CET
People with no lives, or lives they wish they didn't have, spend waaayy too much time monitoring others. Who do they think they are, anyway? It's just a way to distract themselves from their own problems. Bleah.
Willowy | August 08, 19:17 CET
RavenU | August 08, 19:29 CET
herb | August 08, 19:30 CET
You know what really scared me? Those spiders in Minority Report. They frightened me because they seem SO CLOSE to a reality... our reality. Something can just crawl into your home and climb on you and look into your brain at any time. Brrrr!
Willowy | August 08, 19:35 CET
Madhatter | August 08, 20:18 CET
But, I'd rather have them home watching tv, surfing the net or playing with the Xbox than out getting into trouble somewhere because they are bored.
Firefly Flanatic | August 08, 21:43 CET
Of course there are shows that kids shouldn't watch, for any amount of time. You should monitor that, that's being a parent. There's a certain age of children who shouldn't be watching Buffy. But it seems this article is more concerned about the amount of time, rather than the content. And yeah, if these kids have such stressful school lives(my American high school by comparison was a breeze and I never had homework) and obligations, the should be allowed a bit of relaxation time. Not forced physical exertion. I mean, how many times when a parent tells their kid to go outside and 'do something', does the kid just end up sitting under a tree being bored out of their skull because it's not what they want to be doing. Might as well let them sit in front of the tv, watching something that might feed their imagination. And for some kids, watching Discovery Channel could be just as boring as sitting under a tree. You shouldn't send your kid to school, make them do 2 or 3 hours of homework, then make them watch educational shows. That's not being a kid!
And I'd like to see his 'cases' of kids who became obsessed or affected by Buffy. I mean, I have been both at one time or another in the past couple of years, but I'm wondering what his 'cases' would show or prove. Did one of the kids stake their parents through the heart or something? Or would they say that perhaps visiting a site like Whedonesque is a symptom of a Buffy obsession???
Ah, blah....this debate will never go away. It just gets rehashed in one form or another when our societies swing back more conservative.
Rogue Slayer | August 08, 21:45 CET
Willowy | August 08, 23:17 CET
I agree that Buffy isn't for all kids and anything your kids watch should be monitored. A lot of my kids friends were watching Buffy at a very young age but I wouldn't let mine watch until I felt they were old enough to understand some of the themes. Or if a particular show was going to have subject that I thought they were too young for they weren't allowed to watch that particular episode. And when they did watch, I always watched with them so we could talk about it too. I did a lot of watching the show without them and taping it, and if I thought it was okay, they'd be allowed to watch it the next day.
Watching Buffy with my girls opened up a lot of opportunities for good conversation and what's right and wrong. Like the episode with the Jeckyl and Hyde boyfriend who one moment was all loving and the next moment abusive. It was a great chance for me to talk with them about relationships and how you should be treated and what was appropriate and what wasn't.
And getting outdoors and playing is important too but like Rogue Slayer said, if they are just going to go out and sit under a tree and be bored, what's the point of that? We'd go out and play with our kids and have fun with them. I've had some health issues the last few years and haven't been able to do that as much but we recently got a trampoline and if I go out and jump on it, my kids sure enough want to use it too. We used to make them go on hikes with us when they were younger. My oldest would complain the whole ride to where ever we were going but as soon as we got there she always had a blast and would enjoy herself. A little prodding is good sometimes!
And I am very obsessed with Buffy, just love the show and can't get enough of the verse but it's a good obsession and it's fun to share with my kids. It isn't hurting us or anyone else and it's been a lot of fun.
Firefly Flanatic | August 09, 00:44 CET
Zman | August 09, 00:57 CET
And I agree about being obsessed, but who cares? Like you said, it isn't hurting anyone, helps even, and its just great fun.
Willowy | August 09, 01:14 CET
smog | August 09, 01:24 CET
Sure, not all teenagers are physically active and would rather watch televsion or read or write and so on, but you can't make someone do something they don't want to--I think that's already been established.
lady_fantastic | August 09, 05:25 CET
To my mind Joss Whedon is attempting to make great art (though I'm sure he's to modest to characterize it this way). Spending some time with great art is always mind expanding and beneficial. It expands the horizons of your life, allows you to see things in new ways, makes life worth living.
bjarmson | August 09, 07:30 CET
Invisible Green | August 09, 07:31 CET
Christopher | August 09, 07:57 CET
But, natch, Joss is worthy of the name genius.
SoddingNancyTribe | August 09, 08:07 CET
That's on my shortlist for Favorite Whedonesque Quote Of The Year.
oh! there's a quote of the year? will you tell me what wins?
pezwitch | August 09, 12:33 CET