TV Gal Mourns the Dead.
"Most Honest Portrayal of Death: Joyce Summers on "Buffy the Vampire Slayer. From Buffy's numb and disconnected reaction to her friends' utter helplessness, this is the episode that got everything right." Spoilers for Lost at bottom of the page.
(Added) Joss posts some personal thoughts about The Body in this thread.
As long as you don't scroll past "Highlights of the Week Ahead" you should be fine.
April 25 2005
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ZachsMind | April 25, 17:47 CET
ringworm | April 25, 18:53 CET
"I mean, I knew her, and then she's, (sniffling) there's just a body, and I don't understand why she just can't get back in it and not be dead anymore. It's stupid. It's mortal and stupid. (still teary) And, and Xander's crying and not talking, and, and I was having fruit punch, and I thought, well, Joyce will never have any more fruit punch ever, and she'll never have eggs, or yawn or brush her hair, not ever, and no one will explain to me why."
Its at once very childlike and yet so apt and direct to the heart of what one feels at times like these. The reactions all around were dead on (err no pun intended) and the way it was shot was just incredible. edit: /agree with ringworm as well.
[ edited by zeitgeist on 2005-04-25 17:03 ]
zeitgeist | April 25, 19:01 CET
A friend I got hooked on Buffy recently finished Season 5...he said, "Amazing how, in a show where people die all the time, how Joyce's death can affect you to powerfully." Yes, amazing indeed.
zeitgeist, the first time I heard Anya's childlike meditation on death I bawled...I still do, every time I watch The Body.
Chris inVirginia | April 25, 19:21 CET
For me the truest moment is when Buffy opens the kitchen door and she can hear everyone in the neighborhood going about their business. Her world has totally changed and yet everyone else goes on as usual while she is left stunned and numb in her bubble of grief and disbelief. That’s exactly what it’s like.
bloodflowers | April 25, 19:27 CET
palehorse | April 25, 19:29 CET
Nikki Stafford | April 25, 19:49 CET
And then when Giles comes running in and she yells at him not to touch "the body" and everything hits her at that moment. Okay, tearing up right now just thinking of the episode and I've only covered the first few minutes. Willow's anxiety and nervousness and Tara's strong support were wonderfully done. Xander wanting to lash out at everything was so spot on to how a lot of people would really act and Anya's childlike speech, more poignant because it came from Anya who had been alive for so long and forgot all about the fear of death, put into words what everyone cannot fathom, how can we be here, happy and alive one moment and then just gone.
And poor Dawnie, the scene where she's sobbing in the bathroom over some silly teen drama not realizing what is coming and then to be told her mother is dead really got me. We didn't actually hear what Buffy said but we, and all of Dawn's class, were aware of the drama that was happening in the hallway (and did anyone else think that Dawn's teacher looked eerily like Joyce?).
But the very end when Dawn has to see her mother for herself and goes into the morgue only to be attacked by a vampire and then Buffy has to fight him off and is unable to prevent Dawn from doing what she needs to do. With Buffy lying there on the floor as Dawn is reaching out to touch her mother's dead face is just etched in my memory.
Every person in that episode deserved an Emmy for their wonderful and honest portrayal of how we grieve and react to death. Joss brilliantly captured it and no one in life can escape having to live through it.
Firefly Flanatic | April 25, 19:53 CET
Grounded | April 25, 20:04 CET
*sniff*
Kudos to Tvgal for recognizing greatness for what it is.
NickSeng | April 25, 20:09 CET
jewel | April 25, 20:39 CET
When I was going through the S5 DVD's and I was about to watch it for the first time since it aired I had to brace myself and say "Here it comes, get ready". At first I felt the vampire at the end was obligatory but hearing Joss' commentary put it in perspective. Did anybody else also have an adverse reaction to the vampire at first?
And bottom line? I miss Joyce. Great character. Great Mom.
batmarlowe | April 25, 20:52 CET
And this from a show that too many people still (still!!) dismiss as a light, unrealistic fantasy. My ass. Buffy was as realistic as it gets where it counts - as Jane Espenson has said, Joss's interest is in the stuff beneath the stuff. You know, the emotions and interactions and character developments that underlie all that slayage and witchcraft and mystical whatsits. The Body was an unusual episode in that the death was of normal causes and only one lonely vampire made an appearance (a tremendously effective touch, I thought.) But even in the midst of BtVS's fantastical plotlines, emotional truth and realism was a given and was extraordinarily crafted and played. Sure, Buffy was a vampire slayer whose vampire-with-a-soul boyfriend became evil after the slept together, but Buffy's devastation over this heartbreak was as real as it gets.
But back to The Body: I thought everyone - everyone - gave fantastic performances. Like many here, Anya's speech does me in. Brilliantly played. And I thought that Sarah Michelle Gellar did a phenomenal job. They all did.
phlebotinin | April 25, 20:53 CET
How Joss and everyone else captured that sensation...those sensations...so much more powerfully and believably than the Hollywood honchos (and Euro-realists, too) manage to do is breathtaking. And beautiful.
Firefly Flanatic, what jewel said, in spades.
On a different note, I found this from her take on 24 interesting:
"Didn't they know the rules? People in the opening credits aren't supposed to die."
I may be mistaken, wasn't "Seeing Red" the only time Amber Benson was in the opening credits as a regular cast member (as opposed to "guest star")?
Chris inVirginia | April 25, 20:56 CET
Before going all extra-gaga over 24's opening credits' death, TV Gal might want to check out Buffy/Angel's long history of killing people who are in the opening credits: Doyle, Wesley, Cordelia, Gunn (assumed), Fred, Anya, Spike, Tara. Am I missing anyone? The ME folks have been doing this for a long time and doing it repeatedly.
phlebotinin | April 25, 21:09 CET
palehorse | April 25, 21:36 CET
newcj | April 25, 21:48 CET
I don't think The Body was perfect but it was very close. I thought the first few scenes with Buffy discovering the body and telling Dawn at school were very powerful- well shot, beautifully acted, and rich with symbolism.
It's not that I thought the second half of the episode was horrible, but there were some things I could have done without. Some of the dialogue between the Scoobies was a little too rehearsed or something, not as truthful and shocked as Buffy was before that.
Anya's speech was also magnificent, although I could have done without the "and she'll never have eggs, or yawn or brush her hair" bit. I never liked it for some reason, I think Drusilla said something similar about her mother in season two and it just reminded me of that a little. But it was incredibly in character and a perfect example of how Buffy can actually make more realistic observations than 'serious' shows. It takes an ex-demon to highlight the umcomfortableness and unsureness of the characters, whereas in other programs the characters wouldn't be able to say something like this.
I've always found Buffyverse deaths extremely moving. There have been hundreds of characters who have died between either Buffy or Angel, and a lot of them were probably random victims, but there were a lot of important deaths too. There were some big heroic supernatural deathes like Buffy's, Spike's or Doyle's, or more brutal and quick like those of Jenny, Anya or Tara, Joyce's premature but natural death, and even some deliberate but unfortunate ones like Angel's death in Becoming Part 2.
I even found there were some very quick, almost unnoticeable deaths which still highlighted the senselessness and indignity of the monsters the gang had to fight- Harmony and Larry's deaths in Graduation Day Part 2 as an example.
I thought that Jenny was really the first important character to die in Buffy. Jesse had only been around for a couple of episodes so the audience wasn't as invested in him. However, we had seen Jenny develop a relationship with Giles and feel guilty about having to deceive the gang, and eventually trying to redeem herself, before being brutually disposed of by Angelus- who didn't even drink her blood.
Joyce's death was interesting in that it was one of the first natural deaths, of someone Buffy couldn't have saved because there was no monster to fight. We saw this even later with Cassie Newtwon, who's death always reminded me of Joyce.
I thought Tara's death was also tragic for many reasons, because she was so young, had just been reunited with Willow, because she was one of the most innocent characters and because it wasn't even a deliberate attack on her. I felt that it wasn't acknowledged enough by Xander or Buffy immediately afterwards but apart from that it was perfect because it was so unexpected and unjust and had such dramatic consequences.
Doyle's death was pretty special too, although we had only known the character a short space of time, his death was big and heroic, even more bittersweet because he finally embraced himself and his demon side, and finally realised that his feelings towards Cordelia may have been reciprocated, but that it was too late for anything to be done about it.
I also thought that Buffy's death in "The Gift" was extremely beautiful and heroic, sacrificing her own life to save those of her sister and the world. It was sad because she was so young but it a way it was also a relief as she finally came to terms with her place in the world, and as a slayer she could have had other more unpleasant ways to die, but instead went to a good place.
I thought Joss adding Amber Benson to the credits in Seeing Red was a masterstroke, it would have been suprising if Eric Balfour had been added in WTTH and killed in TH, but it was almost more so with Amber because she had been a guest star for so long so when she was promoted the audience thought that she was going to be around for a while, lulling you into a false sense of security, before her untimely demise. I did think that she should have become a regular much earlier because she was such a good character, much like Andy Hallet, who was in Angel frequently for almost three full seasons before being promoted.
Razor | April 25, 22:33 CET
Chris inVirginia | April 25, 22:47 CET
I still remember coming back to my apartment one day and finding my boyfriend crying. He told me he had just finished watching the Body on FX (I was in the early days of my Buffy watching and hadn't seen it yet). I kidded him quite a bit about the fact that he was crying over Buffy, of all things. A few months later, I saw it for the first time, after Thanksgiving dinner, as part of an FX Buffy marathon. I cried like a baby (which my boyfriend, of course, loved, and which elicited quite a reaction from my mother - "what on EARTH are you watching??"). It's not an episode I rewatch frequently, because it is so brutal, and so draining emotionally. But as an hour of television, it's the most flawless and real examination of death I can think of. I agree with ZM at the top of this thread - it so easily could have fallen into "very special episode"/TV movie of the week territory, and didn't.
I agree with everyone who particuarly loves Anya's speech, though I also love the range of emotions Buffy goes through at the beginning. And I always end up crying watching Dawn hear the news for the first time.
Brilliant, brilliant television.
acp | April 25, 23:17 CET
jabby | April 26, 01:01 CET
Passion | April 26, 01:22 CET
Plus he wrote Dawn's line: just before Buffy's about to tell her her mom died, "I thought mom was picking me up." Don't you love him? That's genius.
charisma | April 26, 02:17 CET
MySerenity | April 26, 02:26 CET
I think that the reason Anya's speech was so poignant was because she was always the character who opened her mouth without even thinking about what was coming out. She has been so brutally literal and honest in her history on the show that it justified her being the only one who could verbalize it. Both Xander and Willow are feeling the same way, but Anya is the only one who can say it because she doesn't know!
I found it particularly beautiful after watching "Selfless" because I think that this is the defining reason why she couldn't be a vengeance demon again. This is why it hurts her so much. Because of Joyce. She caused death for hundreds of years, never knowing or caring about the people. But she knew and cared about Joyce. This made completely human. She couldn't go back because she had finally become human.
Xander | April 26, 02:27 CET
And the thing with the whole Anya speech was that you didn't see it coming. She was being Anya up til the point, saying her usual inappropriate things and Willow kept giving her dirty looks. You think she is just being typical Anya until Willow yells at her and Anya breaks down and you realize that she wasn't saying things to be cruel or just outspoken but that she is just absolutely stunned and shocked by Joyce's death and truly doesn't understand.
Firefly Flanatic | April 26, 02:39 CET
This was the very first episode I had ever watched of Buffy. I watched it when it was free to air, and it gutted me then. I had just lost my Father, and it was so realistic and so much like the experience.
To say Joss is genius is far to glib a remark for me concerning this. Joss has felt this. He knows it, and he just put his heart into that episode. After watching it I had so much more respect for the show, I would love to say I was hooked thereafter but unfortunately , no, my next episode was OMWF. Now, well you all know me, I love it! There's also a nice thread about this on the Whedonesque Flickr site, which was running a few weeks back. I just bumped it up.
p.s Firefly Flanatic, your earlier run thru was beautiful and also made me tear up just remebering it too.
[ edited by nixygirl on 2005-04-26 02:06 ]
nixygirl | April 26, 04:04 CET
But brilliant, like nothing has ever been. Just brilliant.
Dana5140 | April 26, 04:09 CET
redtenko | April 26, 05:36 CET
Shudder.
VampiresSuckLOLOLGetIt | April 26, 05:55 CET
nixygirl | April 26, 09:53 CET
I still can't comprehend why it didn't win every award Hollywood has to offer; there's never before been a show on TV that's dealt with the reality of death in such an unsentimentalized, emotionally authentic way. The only thing I can think is that the American TV industry likes to pretend it knows what scares the crap out of people (whether it's large-scale, SFX-enhanced terrorism or your more personal neighborhood hack-n'-slash serial-killer-of-the-week), but when it comes to the subject of honestly and straightforwardly dealing with an ordinary death, they just don't have the
ballsguts for it.Without re-mentioning all the wonderful parts that have been noted above, it was the little moments that killed me. The tinkling chimes, children laughing/screaming. Buffy's vomit being absorbed by the paper towel. Joyce's ribs breaking. Buffy's concern over the indignity of Joyce's hiked-up skirt. Giles breaking into a run when he comes in and realizes what's happened. Dawn falling to her knees in view of her art class and the boy she has a crush on. Joyce's eyes never being closed by anyone until the end (thank you, Dawn)... So many images and words that linger. All so real.
The reasoning I've heard in some places for why the episode was so professionally unrewarded -- that Buffy is just a genre show -- doesn't cut it. Every aspect of The Body is brilliant from start to finish. Every line of dialogue is distilled and potent, every frame exquisitely considered; visually, it's a lyric poem, a love letter and a threnody wrapped up in one economical package. But romantic as Buffy could sometimes be, The Body stripped ordinary tragedy bare and pulled no punches. Rather than just watching from a remove, Joss let us not only share, but experience the most intimate, agonizing pain of Buffy's life when she was alone and at her most vulnerable, and our helplessness was like that of her closest friends. We lived it and we felt it so deeply that for many of us, it's like we actually lost Joyce ourselves. That's not just an hour's worth of mindless entertainment. That's high art.
Wiseblood | April 26, 11:04 CET
palehorse | April 26, 12:31 CET
I had the arc mapped out years before I made the ep, and I always knew it would be MY ep. But when it came around I was filled with ideas for expansion, movies, comics, and that "mom's death ep" was just my day job... One night we had friends over and I remember walking into a room by myself and suddenly realizing that the most important artistic challenge I might EVER face was the ep I was about to start writing. It was a little epiphany, how much this ep would mean to me and how much it would push me artistically. I've mentioned that it's based on some real experiences, talked about the aesthetics of the thing, the idea to not use music... but that one first moment of realization, the first terrible blush of the thing, that was extreme. Part of that excitement is having no idea how it will turn out. Now I do. Reading these posts means a huge amount to me. I would have posted this last night, but I (do you even have to ask?) forgot my password again. Thanks, all. -j.
joss | April 27, 00:09 CET
SoddingNancyTribe | April 27, 00:13 CET
SpikeBad | April 27, 01:17 CET
oh and hey because of the password: You know that you can choose your password yourself, right? I mean you can use a word you have to think about every day anyway... *eg*
Princessofdarkness | April 27, 01:21 CET
and yeah, now i'm weepy too from reading everyone's comments.
i've said it before - BtVS was like a rope thrown to drowning-girl-me when my life fell apart in 2000. i hadn't paid any attention to the whole deal before then. and the series just reverberated, got under my skin, seemed to know me and be able to tell my life on the screen while telling a tale totally NOT of my experience. simply amazing stuff.
having Tara say "It's always sudden." just hit me so hard when i first heard it. of course. it is always sudden. i now use that often when discussing our parents' mortality among my friends. some have gone, some are hanging on, some are hale, but no matter when or how, it is always sudden.
**and re: password - if you have a computer than only you use, you can set it so that it never asks for your password again. gosh, don't ask ME how to do that though. i'm not that helpful.
leenah | April 27, 01:45 CET
I always wondered if Joss was inspired at all by that - and hence the title.
Odysseus | April 27, 02:01 CET
It comes closer to saying what happened when my mom died than anything else ever has. Despite being totally unlike it in fact. My sister watched The Body once and has never been able to watch it again.
Thanks.
And Serenity trailer? Whooo hooo! ;-)
Lioness | April 27, 02:01 CET
killinj | April 27, 02:29 CET
jewel | April 27, 02:30 CET
It was a good call. Didn't stop me from bawling my eyeballs out, but, it was a bit easier. Except for the "blind now" part.
The reality of death, the way it drops onto a canvas of utter mundanity, was never captured so precisely. I can watch almost every Buffy/Angel episode over and over without a second thought, but, I still have to make repeat viewings of "The Body" a deliberate choice. Powerful stuff.
k8cre8 | April 27, 02:36 CET
Dana5140 | April 27, 02:37 CET
So today we all saw the 'Serenity' trailer, and it just gives me so much pleasure to know that Joss was on-line and must have seen the excitement and joy of all his fans.
I'm feeling very sentimental now...I'd better go watch the trailer ten more times.
embers | April 27, 03:30 CET
I've seen some wonderful movies that are pretty much a study of audience manipulation. The first time I see one I can float along and enjoy it, even if a part of my brain is recognizing how blatantly I am being manipulated. The more I see it, however, the more it fails to affect me emotionally, even if I can still marvel at how well it is done and enjoy it in a fairly detached way.
The Body, and BtVS in general...but especially The Body...used bare truth to engage the audience's emotions and consciousness. It is harder and more dangerous, but it does not matter how many times someone sees it, it will still slice straight through to their emotions.
Amazing.
newcj | April 27, 04:00 CET
OK, Net hugs for Joss, for taking my heart in "The Body" and letting it rest.
You will never really know what that means to me.
♥ ♥ ♥
nixygirl | April 27, 04:06 CET
nixygirl | April 27, 04:25 CET
The Body was the first episode to mesmerize me from start to finish, as I had only recently begun watching reruns around the time I first saw it.
It wasn't television. It was too good.
The Body is the best BtVS ep, imho.
As for the vampire at the end, i get why it was there. Buffy fights in every single episode. It doesn't matter what else happens around her. She's always the Slayer.
As for Anya's words about fruit punch "and she'll never have eggs, or yawn or brush her hair," well, they are beyond the obvious 'original'. That's one of the purest lines I've ever heard or read. And I was a lit major. What separates good writers from great writers? Voice. And verisimilitude.
WhoIsOmega? | April 27, 08:10 CET
:) hee hee.
Harmalicious | April 27, 08:39 CET
Sunnycide | April 27, 10:58 CET
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